i met a lady who was homeless who was a ex-dancer(stripper).
We got to be real close then we moved to the town where she use to dance.I started noticing bad behaviors coming from her,but we still loved each other(I thought).One week we argued and had some misagreements,then we made up and apoligized to each other.The next week she just left without taking any clothes or letting me know that she was not coming back.I haven't seen her for almost 2 months.She called once to wish me a happy father's day.And she called the day after father's day and said that she wanted to talk about us.I haven't heard from her since.Do you think this is a relationship I should continue to pursue or should I move on?And what do you think could be going through her mind right now,because I gave up a lot to keep her out of the streets and have a desent life?
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2006-07-02 04:08:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only she knows what's going through her mind.I can't say for sure,but she may really have or had feelings for you or she could have been using you till she felt strong enough to be on her own again.She's left and been gone for 2 months so to me she has already made her choise.If she wants to come back and you take her back she'll probably just do the same thing to you again.I think you need to think real hard about it all and ask yourself if you want a women that's gonna come and go whenever she feels like it.If I were you I would move on and find a women that's willing to stick around.Nobody deserves to be put on the back burner,and that's what this girl is doing to you.Put and end to it now!
2006-07-02 04:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by tiger_lover_1975 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I guess u have to end this relation.. u can't keep waiting for her the whole life time!! Life has to go on and take this as a bad dream!! By the way she is a ex-stripper , she wudn't need any clothess...Just kidding don't mind!!
2006-07-02 04:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by smashbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and forget her. She is going to continue to cause you problems and be a problem in your life. Before I was married to the man I am now..he used choose girls with many different problems...he always thought that he could help them, but they all ended up hurting him badly because they didn't want help. You sound like you are similar creatures. You cannot save everyone, hon. You need to find a woman that is more stable, honest, loving, faithful, and trustworthy. She hasn't given you too many reasons for you to trust her. Her wanting to be on the streets was all her choice. Let her live with herself. Find someone more normal and stable. She will end up hurting you more and more...and causing you a string of problems. Time to move on and forget her.
2006-07-02 05:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just not interested in you anymore. All your efforts to give her a decent life have come to a nought, going by what I can read into your story. Try moving on but give it one last chance. If she still isn't interested, then God save her. I pray that there are more of your type in this world.
2006-07-02 04:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by wordsurworth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she left without clothes. Strippers don't need them.
2006-07-02 04:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd be an idiot if you kept up with this relationship. she's obviously trouble. think about the future. you don't love her, you love the sex or the way she looks. you know she's trouble, you even said it. move on whiel you have the chance.
2006-07-02 04:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why, a lot of strippers are homeless
2006-07-02 04:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Alan Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations!!!! you are the stupidest man alive.
2006-07-02 04:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Daxzakk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need that
you cant kept doing the same things over and over and expect different results...
i would drop her..
2006-07-02 04:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming that is all the facts, you have done well and honorably, but I wouldn't be supprised if you don't see her again
2006-07-02 04:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by night_fox51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋