2006-07-02 03:48:11 · 18 answers · asked by bbygrl365 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Dear lady, Your relationship isn't going anywhere. It is time to move on but you must be ready. You will start noticing more and more the little mannerisms that deplore you. Don't waste your love on a man that can't commit in seven years. You are being dragged down by this man. You will get over him and you will live through it. Start burning thar bridge now and build another one.
2006-07-02 04:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by eatoe 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Some men are never ready and never will be. You need to try not to pressure otherwise that will ruin the relationship. Maybe the relationships that he has witnessed in the past have not worked out therefore he sees no hope. Maybe he is one of those guys that believe as soon as you get married the relationship goes sour, you really need to talk to him, like I said without pressuring him and being critical to get his true take of the situation.
2006-07-02 03:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should read the book "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys"
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/068987474X/002-3619280-6081636?v=glance&n=283155
2006-07-02 03:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and ask him that. No one else knows how he feels except him. But you need to be honest with him. If you are ready for that commitment then tell him and see what he says and then make your choice to stay or leave.
2006-07-02 03:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by rainofshadows20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong question. The question you want to ask is "Why have I wasted seven years on a guy who can't commit?"
2006-07-02 04:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ranto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't committed to you after seven years, it's because he does not want to commit to you. Seems pretty obvious to me.
2006-07-02 03:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tom Jr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First decide what you really mean be commit. Marrage is not always the answer
2006-07-02 03:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't ready to. Or maybe he doesn't feel you are the right one to commit to. Maybe he has reasons not to.
Have you asked him to? Maybe you should explain that you want him to and if he says no, ask him to explin why.
2006-07-02 03:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by TiFFeRz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has had to much of you, or he is realy distracted about something you hvae no clue about
2006-07-02 03:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by aimeemay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loss of interest in Sex may be the answer.
2006-07-02 03:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by fatsausage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋