My best friend just died in a car crash in order to save Amy, my 7yr old cousin and im now her guardian, but my boyfriend doesnt understand that and hes giving me a hard time, what should i do?
2006-07-02 03:42:26 · 7 answers · asked by butterfly_cutie_4eva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If he just cant accept or understand its time to find a new boyfriend.This little girl needs your help in growing up,your bf is already grown,Good luck,God bless:O)
2006-07-02 08:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you to do.... I think you already know the answer. Plus she is 7 years old... she needs you. However, if you think that you are not up to the task of raising a child properly, then you should consider finding another relative that is willing to care for her. Further don't get caught up in what your boy friend says, you are her family and if he truly cares for you he will understand and will be there no matter what.
2006-07-02 03:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by A Friend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is going to be a life-long commitment, get rid of him now, before things get too far gone. If things are going to be this hard in the beginning, imagine what they'll end up like. Cut your losses and focus on what really matters here... that poor child.
2006-07-02 03:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first try to console ur bf and then if he doesnt support u or doesnt listen u just tell him u wont be with him
2006-07-02 03:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweetniyu17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't understand or support your decision then maybe the relationship isn't as strong as you think it is... you are doing the right thing...
2006-07-02 03:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the b.f.
2006-07-02 03:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing
2006-07-02 03:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Suganya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋