when im child my mother told me you are ugly when i grow up my brother told her sugesstion to me but sometimes i think im normal im graduate and have m.s but i dont like myself
2006-07-02 02:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by sameh s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
iv had issues about the way i look and its a very hard thing to put up with, i missed out on so many oppurtunities cause i couldnt face people looking at me.
Look in the mirror a full length one and look at all the things you like about yourself.... focus on these only!
if for instance you dont like your legs really look at them until you see something nice... good shape... not bandy... nice colour etc....
this really helped me. Good Luck and remember only suround yourself with people who make you feel good you dont need ANYONE telling you your unatractive
2006-07-02 02:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a copy of this song by Christina Aguilera:
"Beautiful
Written by Linda Perry
Don't look at me
Everyday is so wonderful
Then suddenly
It's hard to breathe
Now and then I get insecure
From all the pain
I'm so ashamed
I am beautiful
No matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful
In every single way
Yes words can't bring me down
Ohh no
So don't you bring me down today
To all your friends you're delirious
You're so consumed
In all your doom, ooh
Trying hard to fill the emptiness
The pieces gone
Left the puzzle undone
Ain't that the way it is
'Cause you are beautiful
No matter what they say
Words can't bring you down
Ohh no
'Cause you are beautiful
In every single way
Yes words can't bring you down
Ohh no
So don't you bring me down today
No matter what we do
(No matter what we do)
No matter what we say
(No matter what we say)
We're the song inside the tune
(Yeah, oh yeah)
Full of beautiful mistakes
And everywhere we go
(And everywhere we go)
The sun will always shine
(The sun will always, always, shine)
And tomorrow we might awake
On the other side
'Cause we are beautiful
No matter what they say
Yes words won't bring us down
Ohh no
We are beautiful
In every single way
Yes words can't bring us down
Ohh no
So don't you bring me down today
Ooh, ohh
Don't you bring me down today
Don't you bring me down, ooh
Today"
Play it in the morning when you look in the mirror. Tell yourself that no matter what anyone else says, you are beautiful in your own right, and no one can deny it or take it away from you. Then give yourself a big hug & remind yourself that you're a very special child of the universe.
2006-07-02 02:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on your mother firstly, that's no way to talk or treat her child. Focus on your positives, everyone has positive attributes. We are all beautiful, that's the truth. There's this song I would like for you to find and listen to, it really helped me when I went through the same thing. Its called "Video" by India Arie
It always helps me when I'm feeling down about myself :)
2006-07-02 02:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Cantrelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,I think every woman is unique in her beauty and beauty is in the eye's of the beholder.
I am sure you are not ugly.Just go to a beautician and ask her how you can make yourself look even better.You will see for yourself how good you can look when you groom yourself the right way.
2006-07-02 02:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by daffodil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find some way to see yourself in a good way, you said you're a garduate, then you're smart, start there and build from there, you not be the best looking on the outside, but everyone has a beautiful heart no matter what they're choice, and that's what matters most.
2006-07-02 02:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure how you look like...you may not be beautiful in appearance, but you may good in heart. nothing is perfect in this world. if you have this, you will not have that. start loving yourself today. you are just perfectly normal. you never know there are people out there in the crowd thinks that you are beautiful. stop having negative thoughts, stop thinking and start living. be happy, always..
2006-07-02 02:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Janep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't be so down on your self i totaly feels ya i feel the same way about myself iam not comfortable with myself aswell so cheer up some, get a boyfriend.. He will make you feel better by telling you that you are beautiful and skinny all the time i know my boyfriend does it to me all the time and i say wateva, but thanks for being so sweet..
2006-07-02 02:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is to be confident about however you are...........not what you think you look like............that is the rule of the world my dear............half the beauties you get to see today are nothing but loads of attitude and self confidence.......sorry to say so but it just dosent matter what you think of yourself...............what you look like is the enthusiasm and confidence you exude.............trust me on that my girl.........gud luck!
2006-07-02 02:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thining that u're not beautiful, and start to like yourself.
be proud of yourself...
2006-07-02 02:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by sirilxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry ab't ur appearence .. god has made everyone unique.
2006-07-02 02:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋