with making decisions. Is this characteristic of my sign? How can I become more decisive?
2006-07-02 02:20:04 · 17 answers · asked by ThatLady 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I have difficulty making decisions when family members are involved. But it's with buying things too. It has to be perfect before I will get it. I have to know that I'm getting a good deal for my money. I have to know that the item will last. And that's just a pair of shoes. It could take me up to three days of shopping for a pair of shoes before I buy one. Then I will usually wear them until they fall apart. Part of it is that I just don't want to waste my hard-earned money, no matter that there's more where it came from. Maybe you're right. It has nothing to do with my sign but more to do with my upbringing and not having very much as a child...
2006-07-02 08:13:58 · update #1
Your "sun sign" (Capricorn) is only a tiny part of your entire chart. To explain better, a chart is a like a photograph of the heavens from the spot where you were born at the moment you were born.
So, the sun may have been in Capricorn, but you may have Mercury (talking, thinking), in Pisces which is kind of a floaty sign.
You would need to have your chart interpreted by an experienced astrologer to get more info as to how to understand and use your other planets, midpoints, house placements, etc. to recognize your attributes rather than thinking that you're indecisive :).
You're not doomed to being indecisive, tho - you decided to ask the question, right? :)
2006-07-02 02:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by luna__cee 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I'd be curious when you're birthday is because Cap's are not indecisive, UNLESS, it involves a family member or friend. And when it's a family member or friend they usually become a blithering mess because they want to do the right thing for those people, where as work is pretty cut & dried, But decisions like where to go for dinner? you don't want to be in my car if you want something different than I do. Capricorn is one of the strongest signs in the zodiac, they are not a goat for no reason, they're tenacious, unforgiving, analytical, they look to the highest sights and they achieve it. 34% of all CEOs are Capricorns. That's big!
So you're not indecisive because of the sign...
2006-07-02 09:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your judgment will improve with age.
Even though you advance in life "slowly", but steadily, always with a strong hand at the helm and an eye for the advantageous situation.
Hang around people who are goal - oriented, or authority figures can do much to motivate you. Listen to your heart, because you have a built in mobilize energy and talent and your a hard worker, with a quick brain power.
Your fond of grandparents or elderly people, these folks could help you with your self-esteem, maybe you need an "older Mentor"who can guide you.
Good Luck
2006-07-02 10:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by crystallamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that being a Cap has any think at all to do with your decision making....It has to do with other factors of your personality. For instance, you may not want to hurt other people's feelings, or desire for people to like you, and not to disappoint others. It may have to do with feelings of insecurity, or thinking you're never right. Try and find areas of your life and begin to make some changes, those changes will require some decisions, that would be a start!
2006-07-02 15:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am a Capricorn. It is not a character trait. You just have to be more comfortable in your decisions. Become more accertive. We make great decisions we just dont like to have to be the one counted on to make ALL of them. The decision does not matter. Learning to live with the outcome of it is what frightens you.
2006-07-02 09:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by angel739902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a capricorn 2 and am not the best at making quick decisions, but the important answer come 2 me naturally, i dont think ur sign really has that much 2 do w/ who u r, how u act, etc.
2006-07-02 14:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by tenngirlfrmthebeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe your sign has anything to do with it. That is an excuse we use. Indecisiveness is found in many people regardless when you were born. You need to DECIDE to be a leader. Take control of your life and your destiny. Know what you want and you will decide the best way to get it. Be strong and love yourself. The confidence will follow.
2006-07-02 09:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a capricorn also and don't like to decide things for myself. But there are little things in life that you can decide while big things that you really don't want to. I just let my mom or someone else make the choice; this way, I would have someone to blame on when things don't work out.
2006-07-03 00:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too am a capricorn and i do the same. trust me it is not in the upbringing. b/c my sister has a lot of shoes. you just don't find wasting your money on shoes very... i don't know you're a saver and that will help you out in the future!
2006-07-02 21:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by sherbert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read about your sign. You are Capricorn and you are considered a wise person, you are even called 'Old head on between young shoulders". That's because you like to talk to older people than you, and your planet (i forgot which one) represents intellect. You will find a solution sooner.
2006-07-02 17:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by Soso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋