I justed stopped myself from what I'm sure was what would have a BIG mistake but now my boyfriend won't talk to me, what should I do?
2006-07-02 01:55:55 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Be proud of yourself for have so much self control and your bf will get over it..If after a couple of days he doesnt speak to you then you know he was only after one thing and since you were smart enough to realize it was a big mistake he might not want to stay with you he was hoping you were submissive and would just let things roll on....CONGRATUALTIONS for being smarter then alot of girls and Good Luck hopefully his brain will start functioning again and he'll realize you are a good girl that is smart and has self respect
2006-07-02 03:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by shell b 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMG if he wont talk to u just because u dont wanna have sex with him do u really think he is the right guy for u, if he cant accept or respect ur decision then he is not worth staying with if he really cared about u he would value ur decision to wait. Try telling him why u did not wanna continue having sex with him maybe he will understand, if he doesn't find somebody else who respect ur decision.
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-02 02:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a bit bummed you almost had sex but didnt. I think you had every right to do that. I had a similar situation with a hand job, almost did it and pulled away last second, but my man seemed a bit disappointed but worried more about if i was ok and feeling right. That is the way he is. A good guy will be bummed but also realize that your needs for comfort are just as important and if you are not comfortable then to not push you
2006-07-02 03:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't feel right it was the right thing to do on your part. Him not liking it is not your problem.. You don't want a boyfriend who can't support you on importants decisions like this one. What you should do now is pat yourself on the back!! You are one of very few who has made the choice based on whats best for you.
Good luck on all your future chances on this choice. It will come up alot!! Just keep taking care of yourself!!
2006-07-02 02:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by sososad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you must ask yourself the following questions:
Why would it have been a big mistake? Was he going to leave you after sex?
Why isn't he talking to you? Let him know that intimate conversation is more important than sex. Tell him that.
If he just wants to sleep with you, either dump him straight away... or if you are more open minded, enjoy yourself then dump him first.
Guys like that... *sigh*
2006-07-02 02:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend. If he really cared about you he'd try to understand where you are coming from. Also, if you think having sex with him would be a big mistake, why are you with him at all?
2006-07-02 01:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by tony pepperoni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cannot accept your decision, it sounds like he's more interested in the sex than you. Tell him you realize you aren't ready yet. You didn't mean to tease him or lead him on, but it was important to stop before you did something you would regret. If he doesn't like any of that, ask him if he's ready to be a Daddy. That usually cools a guy off. Cause like it or not, sex can equal kid. I got preggy my first time, WITH a condom. So if he doesn't respect you enough to get over his pout fit, dump the jerk. You deserve a guy that into you, instead of trying to get into your pants.
2006-07-02 02:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda depends on how far you went before saying no.Were clothes still on? If not,then he most certainly will view you as a tease and will start to look elsewhere.If this is not the situation then giving in to him in other ways may help restore his shattered ego.Rejection is a hard thing to handle,especially when combined with the raging hormones of an teen.
2006-07-02 02:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Axewielderx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it. You need to realize that you ARE worth it and don't worry about him not talking to you. Who cares? Now you know for sure that it would have been a big mistake if he is not mature enough to talk to you now. Forget about him, you did the right thing.
2006-07-02 01:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on.
If he can't deal with your decision and he only wants to screw you, then he's not worth your emotional time and energy.
There are plenty more people that you'll meet in your life that will understand your need to wait until the time feels right for you.
Never get pressured into things you don't feel comfortable with.
Learn that now rather than deal with the regret of pressured chocies.
2006-07-02 02:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mark C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋