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ok this is the story i've been played out by my ex boyfriend really bad so i know all the tricks in the book so anyways my new boyfriend i've been with for 3 years tonight i was at his house we where drinking a lil liqour soo anyways i look at his cell phone and he has a voicemail so once i try and check it he starts going nuts he jumps out the bed and he grabsthe
phone from me soo right there that was a lil werid so anways we here the voive mail and its a song playing saying some stupid crap about oh darling remeber how it use to be and the other part i couldnt really understand it didnt even sound like english so when i tryed and check who the message was from it was a blocked i-d call and he always be getting blocked i-d calls on his cell phone sooo anyways he says it must have been one of his friends at his job prank calling him i think thats f*cking bull crap his 24 and im 18 soo im thinking that he thinks just cause im young im stupid and i dont know how sh*t really is anyways he also has this ex girlfriend from highskool thats turkish and that song on his voicemail didnt really sound like an english song so im thinking it must be his ex that his still messing around with or some new b*tch .should i just believe what he is saying or do you guys think im right for thinking he is cheating .what should i do i really havent caught him ?

2006-07-02 01:49:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

15 answers

no. dont belive him. If you were 15 when you started dating him he apparently has no respect for you. Get out now.

2006-07-02 01:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Spinning Times LLC 3 · 0 0

You havent' caught him???? Or have you but he is still lying right to your face about it.

Let him go. You don't need that. Regardless of if you "caught" him or not, you obviously lack trust in him.... and rightfully so... because he lied to you before. So with or without proof.... isn't the question.... as much as .....
Do you trust him?
Can you trust him? Even if he finally confesed... would you be able to trust him again? If the answer is no.... then there is no chance for this relationship to work.

Go find someone who will treat you better.

2006-07-02 10:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 0 0

blocked caller id? gut feelings that he's lying to you? he immediately tried to get the phone away so you wouldn't hear anything? what you did hear was love songs, NOT sent by you?
You already know whats' going on...you are 18 yrs old, so much life and better times ahead of you. don't waste another day on someone sneaky and dishonest. you must be good to yourself and honest with yourself..trust your gut feelings.
Good luck!

2006-07-02 09:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by B. 2 · 0 0

i dont kno its a tough situation 2 be in,, i think u shoudl break up with him, but thats gotta b hard bein 2gether 4 3 yrs..i wouldnt trust him by the sounds of that, u'd feel better if u did breck up with him rather than he do it & find out he was cheating all along..i dont kno if ive answered ur question

2006-07-02 09:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by jd 2 · 0 0

go with your gut girlfriend go with your gut, 1st if he really loved you he wouldn't want you feeling insecure and would be trying to make it as clear as hell what that call was.if it was truly just a prank why react like that never mind if he did or didn't cheat just the way he handles you when your feeling insecure about something is very jerky kick his *** to the curb if this is how he communicates concerns he sucks

2006-07-02 09:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by jedjgri 2 · 0 0

I will not be so sure he is cheating just he has some friends(girls) and don't want u to know about it coz he is afraid that you become jealous or think he is cheating though now it the way he react make you think so .don't draw conclusion out of the blue you may hurt urself

2006-07-02 08:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by secret &trade 4 · 0 0

he MAY not be cheating YET!! but if he reacts that way over a phone mess. he is hiding something. be careful.

also if you didnt think he was hiding something you never would have check HIS phone. that is a sign you dont trust him and you must have a reason not to.

2006-07-02 09:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by nixon469 1 · 0 0

He probably is cheating on you. You should have paid less attention to your sex life and more attention to your studies in school. Based on what you have written here, your almost illiterate. It's never too late to do something that will improve yourself and your self esteem.

2006-07-02 09:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by rhymingron 6 · 0 0

honey you are 18 and not married- move on . why put up with the bull crap. if he loves you he will be straight forward -. my wife is welcome to check my messages anytime. i got nothing to hide. so if he gets that upset over a phone -- hello -- move on !!!!

2006-07-02 09:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Moosie 3 · 0 0

yep, you caught him it's your call you have to think if he is doing this now how can their be Trust he broke it. he wants to play around and have you too, better think about moving on or he will keep his little thing going and you as his play toy.

2006-07-02 08:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by rich_below 4 · 0 0

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