if me and my bf are having sex?

Question

if me and my bf are having sex and i'm trying to get pregant for the past year why cant'n i what could be wrong with me,, i mean i very fiancially stable to rake care of the baby even though i'm 18

but what could be the reason?

i mean i am in college and my dad inherit me lots of money when he past away and i'm getting married on 9/3/06 of my birthday on the beach nothing is wrong with my plans and i think i well ready too take care of a baby **** i took care of my damn siblings ,,,,

my father is dead and so is my mom so i think i could handle anything that comes my way

Answer 1

You should talk to your doctor about it. Have you tried charting your menstrual cycles and ovulation dates. There are ovulation prediction kits that you can use.

Answer 2

Money isn't the only answer to raising children, but it is a big part of it. Don't rush for bringing children into your lives. Enjoy the relationship more. Give the relationship time to grow some more. 3-5 years. I recommend getting married before having children. Finish college, travel and at least wait till your over 21 to get married. Your at a very important time in your life where you need get yourself financially stable and emotionally focused on where you'll be headed in life. A child greatly reduces your options. Adopt a pet from the pound, Good Luck

Answer 3

Well, I think that when it comes to making babies: the more you try the harder it is. People not trying are getting pregnant everyday while it took me 3 months of trying before it finally happened. The doctor said we were trying to hard. We were doing it way too many times and stressing too much about it. I recommend you just stop trying. Just go on like if it doesnt matter if it happens or not and when you least expect it...... BAM! your pregnant! I hope there is nothing physically wrong with you and wish you the best!!

Answer 4

Well I'd wait until after you get married to have the kids, but thats beside the point, sometimes it takes for ever to concieve. Its amazing how hard it is to actually get pregnant, and yet there are a lot of teen girls out there that get pregnant their first time.
If its been a year than its time to go and talk to a doctor. Like for instance, my mother in law was on fertility drugs and tried to get pregnant for 5 years, and when she went off the fertility drugs she finally got pregnant.

Answer 5

The problem could lie with either of your reproductive systems. Your partner could have a low sperm count or your vagina may produce an increased amount of mucus which would block the sperm from entering your uterus. There are a multitude of reasons for your inability to conceive and none of them could be determined over the internet. I suggest you invest in a quality OB-GYN.

Answer 6

no offense but don't u feel u need to go to college first? even if ur financially stable now, money isnt everything.
you need to grow as an adult first and experience many things before bringing a baby into this world.

Answer 7

the only thing i can say is go 2 the doctor and get a check upp also women are only able to get pregnant on some days of the month so mayb your doing it at the wrong times also there is an over the counter test that lets you know wat days u are most fertile

Answer 8

r u really ready for a child , being a parent and in collage , can be demanding , your father's money is not your , he might not give u any money after the child is born , just think it over , might have to find a job . good luck

Answer 9

You are not going to find the answer here. Don't assume the problem is yours either. If your eighteen and single you might want to rethink this anyway.

Answer 10

There is no way you are financially stable enough at 18.