I am a victim of mental abuse. My bf is so wicked, hoow ever much love i show for him, just for any small thing i say or joke, he'd say sumtihg bad abt me, link me with other men and tear me down.For example, ysterday he told me to check my email, i told him my pc got virus and he called me a ***** and told me I am not sincere with him.He made me feel like i was lying but i was not.I sware on anything also he can't trust me. i dunno y.I cut my leg with glass to prove him my love.Just 5 minutes back, i told him i met my old college mate. My bf asked me am i having affair with him? I cried and even the blood in my leg no healed, he is already torturing me. I feel on his feet and told him not to abuse me like this coz i have an EXAm for my Masters in anotgher 4 days and now i can't even study coz I am so obsessed with him i think abt him and can't take his dumpin me.How shud i get him back?i know i am being bullied , but I cna't break up b4 my exam lke this. I dont know what to do!
2006-07-02 01:16:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop being a victim. Ask yourself If he can do this to me does he really love me? You know the answer as well as the rest of us. Of course he doesn't. All he is interested in is having control over you. If it is this bad right now, think of what the future would be like. It would only get worse. You need counselling. Help yourself. If fear stops you from leaving the relationship head for the nearest womans shelter and get the help you need.
2006-07-02 01:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help.You shouldn't be with a guy that treats you like crap.There are different places that you can get help from,for example your telephone book has numbers you can call for abused women.You can go to your local church and they would help you.You could probably even go to your local hospital and they would help you.It sounds like you are smart,because you are going after your Masters degree,I think you should dump your boyfriend and concentrate on yourself.GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-02 08:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u tolerate such a sick person......u shud accept the fact that he does not love u....rather he is usin u.....its the time to take a decision ... ur fair decision can get u out of this...leave him ! he doesn't deserve u....why do u hurt urself for such a cruel man ? the time for decision has come...ur life wont stop without him. In fact, a day wud come when u wud feel proud on ur fair decision.
2006-07-02 08:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him back!? Are you nuts!? You DO NOT have to put up with abuse for one second!!! Spit in his face and send him on down the road..There are lots of guys out there who are NOT jerks! He IS replaceable. Take care of yourself, and don't fret over some insincere lame girly man who only cares about his self.......
2006-07-02 08:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inspite of all these harassment, you still want to get him back?? Surprising!! He is suffering from hyper possesiveness and unless treated, he cannot change his attitude in life. Better be off with him. and donnt do stupid things like cutting yourself to prove your worth!!!!!
Stand in front of the mirror.look staright at the eyes of the image and take solemn oath to forget him and get self motivated to come oout of your exams in flying colours!!
2006-07-02 08:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of put your foot up his *** and kick him out the door a long time ago. Be glad the loser is gone from your life. Get on with your life and stop dwelling on this loser. You're wasting precious time on him.
2006-07-02 08:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get out of there don't go back for anything unless you have the police their to watch him, and don't have anything to do with him if you have to move out of state. if you don't you could end up died. he don't love or Trust you and without that there is nothing. he will keep on doing this to you, I hope you get out, call abuse center
2006-07-02 08:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by rich_below 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you must break up with him.Because even if you talk to him he will continue with this behavior, maybe without wanting.Tell him that you can not stand this situation and talk to someone who is close to you and resolve this problem faster.Good luck.
2006-07-02 08:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have serious issues. No guy is worth all that mental anguish. He doesn't care about you or he would not let you torture yourself for his pleasure. Dump him and move on.
2006-07-02 08:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the end of he world!!! wake up!!! hes not worth it!!! . try to ignore him so he can realize how valuable you are
2006-07-02 08:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by saint6ph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋