She was always telling me that she loved me and now she has decided to break up with me and I don't understand why...all she said was that she didn't feel the same way.
I love her and feel distraught to lose her.
I don't understand how could she have chanced her feelings so suddenly...?
Is there any chance to win her back?
2006-07-02 00:43:10 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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ye do that you have a dogs chance
2006-07-15 09:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best chance to win (although people are not prize objects) her back is to first accept that she is out of your life and to let her go,you need to go through mourning/heartbreak and this way you can react/act without emotion or being needy so thus enabling yourself to be 100% genuine, and if there is a good reason to be together again she will see this rather than just your hurt and this will 1 prove your maturity 2 enable her to see the REAL you 3 enable if she wishes fresh start as no past emotions in the way.
Its always very hard to split up with someone but if you really love this girl you will accept situation and learn from it regardless of outcome.
all the best, if its meant to be simply learn its lessons and trust yourself and above all follow gut instinct and not emotions.
2006-07-02 00:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by soothsayer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might another guy in the background or she might feel things with you were getting stale. It could also be a test to see how much you love her and how much you miss her, etc. Women are strange creatures; they seem to have these hoops they keep wanting you to jump thru, instead of just talking. Oh, and they always have to come out on top and win. They're born competitive..
Hard as it is, and I know exactly how you feel, believe me, you have no choice but to back off and give it some time. Unless she has no feelings whatsoever for you, she will come back to you, eventually. Just whatever you do, don't come across as desperate, women feed off that. Just tell her you love her, remind her of the good times you had, and try hard, and it is hard, to be patient....
2006-07-02 13:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by emjay1212001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She walked away means that either you were not treating her right or there is someone else in her life now! As for winning her back well honestly once a girls walks away its a bit difficult...with women they have a lot of patience but to a point and once its reached the level than they make their decisions and mostly they stick to it!
There has to be a reason for her leaving, so its better for you to call her and ask to meet her and find out why she left you!
good luck
2006-07-02 01:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is never a sudden change it has been brewing for a while and she never said anything until it got to be to much.
Basically she got a really good look at the real you and not a fake you because you wanted to be nice.
She is a smart girl because the way you acted now will be the way you will act after the marriage.
So, look at the way you have been maybe you need to make some changes
2006-07-02 00:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe her feelings ddnt change suddenly they just seem to have done to u coz she was putting on a front. chances are its something shes been thinking about 4 a long time and something just wasnt right 4 her. some ppl want to sort things out if they feel somethings not right, others 4 watever reason dont, maybe they feel they cant, but it all escalates in the end and she just might not be happy any more
2006-07-11 12:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by roundtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't give us alot of details to work with but, she is likely dating someone else. She is telling you she loves you because she is trying not to hurt your feelings. The best way to win her back is to live great without her. Move on to a younger hotter model. If things and the other guy don't work out she might come crawling back. But taking ex's back rarely works out. Later Dude.
2006-07-02 00:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost you have to take care of you and provide for yourself. Your place of residency, work and your financial status. When you are fully accomplished as an independent Man and want to take on more responsibility then you can and you dont' have to go looking for that one special person that you think has whooed you to mush. Women in todays society like a Man that is self independent and lives a properous life...she will come knocking at your door my friend.
2006-07-15 05:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want someone that doesnt love or respect you in return?
I think she has made it more than clear as to why she has left...dont you?! She must have felt like this for a while, cos bitches we might be...but even bitches cant control their feelings well enough to change them overnight! Put it down to experience and move on from her-easier said than done i know, but if she loves you, she come running back to you if you pretend that your over her....i hope!!
2006-07-11 15:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. There is nothing so attractive as being ignored. It makes someone think about whether or not they really want to lose you.
Remember that thing about loving someone and letting it go?
That's what they were talking about. If she comes back she is yours, if she doesn't she was never yours in the first place.
2006-07-02 09:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by C R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brian
From a womans point of view. Ask her what went wrong, and then I know this would be hard just go out and find someone else.
Seriously if she has decided then sorry to say dont try and get her back.
2006-07-02 00:48:27 · answer #11 · answered by Cheryl L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋