We are both bartenders and when I get home she is already asleep and Is getting up about 4 hrs. later. Will this probably have a negative impact on our marriage.
2006-07-02 00:00:08 · 13 answers · asked by twackman4life 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is that the life you both looked for?so why you go on,either you change your shifts to meet or to break up and look for another partner.life is not only work and making money ,we work to make money to build a real life with whom we love to enjoy after all
2006-07-02 00:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by sigmastar _62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUH! HELLO!!??? ANYONE HOME IN THERE??? Yes this will have a negative impact on your marriage! Trust me! my hubby works long stupid hours as a bricklayer foreman and I was a stay at home mom for yrs. We never saw each other and were in marriage counseling 3x before our 10th anniversary. Yes we are still married but its still not a good marriage, no matter what he thinks. Im miserable and want a divorce but he wont give me one. FIND A NEW JOB!! OR WORK THE SAME HOURS AS UR WIFE AT THE SAME BAR!! if u dont, one of u might be finding a new partner if one of u doesnt change the hrs u work!
2006-07-02 07:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by billysgirls3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Many people work opposite shifts and may not have much time to spend together though the working week. Ultimately it's going to be what you make of it. Approach the situation knowing that you may not have the time you want on certain days and make the most of the time you have when it's there. Anything is possible if both people involved are committed to making it work.
2006-07-02 07:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarilly. It can but that doesn't mean that it has to. It depends on how the BOTH of you handle it. You both can't be working seven days a week. So on your days off make sure that the both of you get together and do something. How does she feel about this as well.
2006-07-02 07:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to think about this one. If you love her it shouldnt matter but yet you dont see her so.....i think u 2 should get a couple days off for some alone time and see if everythings ok.
2006-07-02 07:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Hrscrzy4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always it can though you need to have at least on day a week to take her out to somewhere that does not remind her of work and you can both have fun.
2006-07-02 07:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by john f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no
i mean it can
but it might bring u two closer
cuz u might notice how u miss each other so much and try to change your life styles
and since u dont see each other that much realize how much u love each other
but it is hard
living like that
2006-07-02 07:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you make time for each other. Love conquers all.
2006-07-02 07:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes it will.. my husband works nights and i work days,so we harldy ever see each other..so now we have drifted apart, and im still trying to figure out why im even here..find some time together please...
2006-07-02 09:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by LINDA E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on you
Just love her as much as you can when you are with her
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-07-02 07:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋