but i found out she is still sneaking behind my back to talk to him. Is she still in Love with him. They were going to get married...?
2006-06-30 23:21:21 · 16 answers · asked by T-Dizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honestly, if I loved my husband and he didnt want me talking to my ex, I wouldnt talk to him anymore. I think that you have to make sacrifices in life. and if thats something that makes you happy and helps you trust her more, she should do it....
2006-06-30 23:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if she is sneaking around then there is something she doesnt want you to know about but then again she alkso could not be telling you because she knows you dont want her to talk to him she just might be friends with him so sit down and talk to her about it or go to him and ask him if something is going on if they were going to get married obviously they were in love ?
2006-07-01 06:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is going on, the whole sneaking behind your back thing...get rid of her,
2006-07-01 06:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by tampabay5400 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is YOUR wife, and not his... I would have a problem with my husband talking to a past girlfriend... UNLESS, he would introduce me to her. I would probably get to know her good enough to where I could find out some of the ways he use to be, which I have! The talking stopped there.
It sounds worse then it is, because he did not care for her much at all, just did it to make me jealous.. it backfired!
2006-07-01 06:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her, once a sneak always a sneak. You will never be able to trust her
2006-07-01 06:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your wife to be frank with and then question her about it, if she answers that she still loves X.. better give her up and advice her to marry that X and to be happy with him.
2006-07-01 06:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried, doesn't sound good.
Confront her about it, tell her how it makes you feel. Ignoring it won't make it go away, and if you don't bring it out into the open now it could develop into something worse for your relationship later on..........
2006-07-01 06:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what is going on but...may be if you had'nt restricted her in the first place...she would'nt be sneaking. your wife may not be disloyal to you but we don't know what the Ex has in mind!
2006-07-01 06:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn;t like it either... but do they have kids together ??? if so they have to talk... if no kids.. just trust her.. relationship won't work without trust.. ask her why she's talking to him and why does she do it behind your back...
2006-07-01 06:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was in love with him she wouldn't be with you ! She should know that talking to him is poison to your relationship and she should stop .
2006-07-01 06:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋