i really cant stand my two friends...they act as if the other isnt around and im sort of the bridge...i hate being the bridge...though at times they acknowledge the other's presence, they still ignore each other almost all of the time...help... ~_________~
ps: they used to be close friends.........
2006-06-30 23:16:51 · 17 answers · asked by !~dA pRinCeSs~! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them your going to step back.You need to breath!Find other friends to hang out with in the mean time.Thay might understand when you tell them that.
2006-06-30 23:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iv been in this situation many times. the first advice i want to give you is try not to choose a side. because the opposite person will think that you like that person better. the second bit of advice is that you can try to help them sort there fight out. maybe sit down with both of them and just let them know how silly they are being and that this is also putting a strain on your relationship with them too. i hope this has helped. and good like with your friends sorting things out! :)
2006-06-30 23:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the cause of their fights? I already experienced that, exactly just like you.I was stuck at the middle, what I did was to listen to both of them,I also made a plan of how i am going to let them see each other and talk. and then... presto. you know what? Now,the gap between them is now solved, they are as close as they were before. I really cant take to see them fightng,and i cant leave them in that situations.
2006-06-30 23:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by raichie_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be fair to each of them and ask their side of their story, after all they're your friends and need your understanding, friends love each other, time will come and they'll forgive one another for whatever they have done to hurt each others feeling.
2006-06-30 23:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur close with them & they realy value ur friendship then u can try with 'i wont talk 2 either of u unless u sort it out between urselves' or stuff each of them a letter not signrd by u but try trickin them & just write their names instead.if that doesnt work then go 2 each 1 & explain wat u feel like with them fightin talk to both of them & get them to listen 2 each other
2006-07-01 05:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have both of them come over on saturday and tell the that you have some thing to do and if thery would help you. and tie them both up and don't untie them untill they are ready to kiss and make up.
2006-06-30 23:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them both alone or talk to them at the same time. tell them what theyre doing is stupid. or find out what the problem is and... just try to make them compromise
2006-06-30 23:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you dont like being in the middle-their problems, they have to sort it out, not you
2006-06-30 23:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by vip333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends.
2006-06-30 23:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by ruthncls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i understand is which you quite desire all of you men to fulfill up, and communicate approximately it. lead them to hear to wat you experience first. And if those are your terrific friends, they shouldnt be ignoring you. ok or J desires to in basic terms get alongside for one greater for you....in case you get it
2016-11-01 01:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋