2006-06-30 22:45:16 · 11 answers · asked by manish b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't understand what the problem there is. If you truly love someone then it doesn't matter.
2006-06-30 22:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming this was not the night before the wedding : Did this man assume his new wife was a virgin? Since there is not many virgins out there.. I would say.. if the man loves the woman, whats the big deal? Most people will say they have had more than one sex partner in their life. Was this sexual encounter like the night before the wedding day? Or was this 2 years prior? I guess it all depends on when the encounter was.
2006-06-30 22:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have sex. All the time. Thousands of people are probably doing it right now. So? That has nothing to do with having a happy successful marriage. It's not as though anyone's had an affair. Get over it.
2006-07-01 00:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? The only problem I see here is that you will make her feel bad about being a human being. You need to grow up. This is 2006 not 1806.
2006-07-01 00:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even a new car in the showroom has been driven around, it does'nt matter as long as you are in love.
but if you are a virgin and then you want your partner to be the same then it is another story.
2006-06-30 23:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can he be sure its not a lie or someone tring to keep you too from getting hitched ? Unless she confessed she did it then you have nothing .. Were you two together when you think this happened ? If you were it depends if you can forgive her and if she was remorsefull .
2006-06-30 23:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, she was honest and you knew before you were married.
That is not a big deal to me, but I'm not a religious person and I am American, so my view may be very different from yours.
2006-06-30 22:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happened prior to them getting commited to each other, or even before they knew each other, I don't thing it should matter.
Its a different story if the girl did it when she was already committed (he became her boyfriend), specially if they were engaged.
2006-06-30 22:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by Eiznot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was before they got together than it shouldn't be an issue. As long as it is over then you should forget it and move on.
2006-06-30 23:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can accept it then go ahead if not don't.
2006-06-30 22:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋