You love each other, but he's in his late 20s and on dialysis. Would you marry him?
2006-06-30 21:01:14 · 26 answers · asked by flipper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why not? Did he choose the have renal failure? Did he wanted life like this? All his answer is that he doesn't have a chance to choose and life is very cruel to him. You are an angel in his heart so you should stay on with him even though you are undecided about marriage. If he can find a donor he can live a pretty normal life and have children of his own. Renal failure is not a death sentence so you will not be widowed. Medicine is so advance now so why worry. This is a time for test of your love for him.....If I were you I will not consider ......
2006-06-30 21:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-17 14:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-24 00:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't just sit around and do nothing like my doctors suggested.
They didn't want me to do anything or to take herbs or herbal remedies, but I had to try something - they just wanted me to do dialysis!
This program allowed me to take control of my health. I went from Stage 4 to Stage 3 kidney disease.
It was easy to do and my BUN, creatinine and anemia are all in better ranges.
Reversing Your Kidney Disease?
2016-05-14 20:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anna Nicole Smith would marry him in a heartbeat, and have her wedding ring finger on the dialysis machine off switch at the same moment that "I do" is said.
2006-06-30 21:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him There's always a catch in everything, Dialysis is expensive, so be prepared to go through some rough times. But if you really do love him, its always worth the sacrifice.
2006-06-30 21:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in love and together we were in a decent financial situation to handle marriage, then yes, by all means. If you would turn someone away just because they have an illness that requires a serious treatment, you don't love him, and he deserves much better (you as a generalized term, not picking on you specifically). Marriage is for better, for worse, in sickness, and in health. I know I'd certainly want my love to stick with me through illness, so I definitely couldn't turn him away in a time of need.
2006-06-30 21:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Manders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have a very good friend who wanted to date me who's on kidney dialysis. I couldn't even get myself to date him. I was too afraid of him dying and me beind devastated. Truth is, I would be devasted anyway, but not like I would if we would have gotten intimate.
2006-06-30 21:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Miss NancyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he is on dialysis shoudl not be the decision on weather yo marry someone.. if that is going to make or break your decision maybe you should not be with him at all... All that shoudl matter is the fact that you love one another. You should enjoy your time together
2006-06-30 21:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by dolphin29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not?!! my man is in his late 20's and we been together 8yrs, he has a really bad bloode pressure problem, and his mum has alzheimers....i am marrying him in dec.....
this is just to show you, love kows no bounds, i mean what if you married a normal guy and after marriage he gets the kidney problem? would you leave him?
Also....if you were in his place and someone didnt marry you because of that, dyo think its fair?
go for it sweetheart!
2006-06-30 21:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋