am havin a hard time cos my fiancee is livin in uk n we hardly meet.pls help
2006-06-30 20:01:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
You have to decide for yourself.
Your Family or This Fiancee you BARELY meet.
Think... there are thousands of guys out there. Would you risk this so called fiancee in UK for the family you spent your memories with? Think carefully, and choose what your heart is aiming at. Sometimes, a wrong turn and you're out of the game. Your life can be ruined, and regrets can be the sorrow of your whole life. ♥ Good luck and I hoped my advice had you choose what's best!
-Roxy
2006-06-30 20:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by geml0vely888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question really doesn't appear to be being stated properly.
Could be my misunderstanding.
If your asking our opinion of your marrying someone you really don't know and because of that your parents are objecting.
What should you do?
It's your life and nobody should live it for you. Not your church,friends or family.
But, regardless of what-ever anyone may or may not approve of, any decisions you make you'll still be expect by those that love you, to act responsibly.
Best advice I can think of would be to tell you to give serious thought to what your about to do.
Do you know your fiancee.Have you spent a reasonable amount of time together before making such a serious decision as marriage?
Know what your doing. Marriage is and should be a serious commitment and not something entered into for the wrong reasons.
Assuming you know what your doing and your options are limited,.. Good Luck
2006-07-01 03:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by thomnjo2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the inalienable human right to choose what you do in this life. If others disapprove, that's there problem. If there is a serious problem, you could always flee to America or Canada or some parts of europe as a refugee.
No person has the right to force you to marry someone you don't want to marry and by the same token, no one has the right to tell you who you cannot marry.
Follow your heart and you will always be right.
2006-07-01 03:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take into consideration: What is more important?
Your family who has been there for you, and will continue to,
or a boy that just waltzed into your life? Boys will come and go, but friends and family are there forever.
Wait until you're older, and until either you, or him, are there in a same place.
You're going to lose a lot of respect in your family's eyes, but if it's what you want, then it's what you want.
2006-07-01 03:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your heart says what you are doing is right and the boy is perfect match for you go ahead, but you should not break you parents heart....who have brouht you up.... try to convinse your parents....there will be some reason for your parents to say no... clear it.........mail me at akhilyourfriend@yahoo.co.in for any problem
2006-07-01 03:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by Akhil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a BIG GIRL now you can make your own choices if your parents don't approve that's OK they'll get over it eventually if not then they are going to miss out being a part of your adult life.....
2006-07-01 03:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Pizzaguy913 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand ur feelings coz i am in love too, but it is u and ur fiancee who is going to live the rest of ur life,but never oppose ur family,try to tell atleast to ur brother or sister(cousins if not),and ask them whether they can help u,and i think ur fiancee has got a good job so proceed with confidence tell ur mummy or daddy.coz if they love their daughter i dont think they can oppose u .finally think of one thing that it is ur life ,decide carefully
2006-07-01 04:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a girl gets marry against her parrents will she has to lost a favour in whole life specially in Iindia and pakistan
2006-07-01 03:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by athernadeem q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if this person is worth losing your family. If so, go ahead.
2006-07-01 03:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt ,and plz dont answer by saying you cant live without him try bit of policy with your parents ..things will work
2006-07-01 03:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by wiggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋