Me and my wife met by accident in Oct 03' and it was Love at first sight. After a long engagement we married in June 05' and our love was so strong. After we got married, I became emotionally lazy to my wife, and all the little things that I used to do stopped. She gives me chance after chance to change, so I change for 2 weeks then i get lazy again. 2 days after our 1 year anv. she said she cant do this anymore...she packed her clothes and left. After 1 week she came back ready to divorce me, but i told her if she has any love for me that we wouldnt get a divorce but have a seperation. So we did. She calls me but I call her more than I should. Ive done alot of romantic ideas to show her that I care. We saw eachother last week I gave her a compliment, she returned the favor. She says everytime she thinks she has her stuff together I call..but she doesnt mind me calling. She wants to see me this week coming up to show me her new hair dew. Does she love me Like I know she does or not?
2006-06-30 19:51:22 · 11 answers · asked by abyss5069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel sorry for you. I think that she still loves and cares for you, but she has been emotionally drained from the marriage.
When a woman is fed up she is fed up. Especially when she in truly in love and her partner is not returning the emotions. She can only keep trying for so long before she has to stop and think about if it is really worth it.
I don't want to say but here it is" You should have treated her like a queen when you had her". It may be to little to late, but try and remain on good terms with her. She may just give you another chance. Just remember, if she does come back, don't fall into the routine of neglecting her feelings. If she leaves again, she may never come back.
Good Luck!
2006-06-30 19:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although i agree with the marriage couseling thing i also think that some ppl are not meant to be married... my cousin for example loves loves loves her husband but they dont get along when they live together. their in love and do everything for each, when their not in the same house. i know this sounds so girly and its ok cause last time i checked i was a girl... but try to be friends for awhile. go out with each other and date each other again. take her out and give her time. she will realise that although she wants u to change she does love every aspect of u.... love is about compromise and eventually u two will find that level and be happy. good luck and god bless
2006-06-30 20:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Krisy k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the lead and get into marriage counseling. You need to be the one who gets things going. Quit waiting for her to take the initiative. Make this relationship your number 1 priority. Your wife needs to know without a doubt that she is the most important person in the world to you. Be the man!
2006-06-30 19:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by schafer_mail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she does, seems to me she's tired of thinking u've changed just to be let down once again.. so i think she's putting you to the test to see if u've really changed for sure or if this is just a ploy to get her back and then you'll just revert back into your bad habits, if u really love her give her ur all and dont stop trying..
Good luck
2006-06-30 19:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE would not carry a pair together sweetheart.......dedication does. the lady basically isn't dedicated. She looks like a selfish, self-based, cankercvnt of a b!t(h, who cares greater approximately her bull$h!t, ineffective fabric possesions than she does approximately actual human beings. you're greater proper off without the worries of that style of woman on your existence, section. BE happy your HAND is OUT of the submit to catch. stay and learn. stumble on a woman you could have faith with your coronary heart. popularity follows human beings.....you have dealt kindly and decently in direction of her and he or she has repaid that with wickedness.....you have already got a one-up on that. you realize why it got here approximately, she's selfish, elementary and straightforward.
2016-11-01 00:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she does love you. She just want more assurrances from you, that's all.
My opinion is, she is not very mature. She has too much fantacy about romance, which is not practical. She must be a very artistic lady. Her mind is full of dreams and fantacies.
Guys are practical and straight-forward. I know you love her.
2006-06-30 20:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big possibility that she would get a chance of having a new boyfriend during your separation.
2006-06-30 20:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by pyj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she bothers to show u her hair do as a gal i feel she yearns for ur attention n yes, she still loves u. She cant let go of u afterall. Congrats:)
2006-06-30 20:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have treated her more like a wife and showed her that you was will ing to change she is tired of being drained from this matter . on work she has feelings as well .. my opion?
2006-06-30 21:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she still does.. thats why she isnt divorcing you til bow... i think she wants to be sure this time so all the effort must be in you thats why she isnt taking time calling you... i think you should really be talking about your real score... but im sure she still has feelings for you...
2006-06-30 20:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by unpretty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋