2006-06-30 19:42:05 · 19 answers · asked by got2hav_faith20 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no, just thinking someone is attractive is not gay, if you want to caress, fondle, undress, or fornicate, then that is gay
2006-06-30 19:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. They'd just be able to identify that a person of the same sex is attractive. To be gay or bi, they would have to WANT to then get jiggy with that attractive person, even if they never actually did...
To be gay, they would have to exclusively find only same sex people attractive.
2006-07-01 08:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Homosexuality (Gay) is about who you LOVE, not admitting that another person of the same sex may be attractive or not. Most males at one stage or another in development have a 'same sex crush' on another male. They get over this. However, if you find yourself in LOVE with another male, thats a different story. Homosexuality is not about sex, you can have that with anyone, its about who you LOVE.
2006-07-01 02:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word-No. Acknowledgement/Awareness of another's "attractiveness factor" is simply and basically human. To dismiss it or call it "gay" is to live solely in Fear. Ignorant Fear of "becoming gay," whatever the hell that means. When did the rest of us remember "becoming" hetero? If you can't see another of the same sex is attractive, you can't see half of Life. Which, of course, is why America is so screwed up. And I live in the South, so I know screwed up.
2006-07-01 02:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by manicirishwriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they would be considered gay if they can only be turned on by the same sex, then act out on it.
2006-07-01 02:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by PinkBrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you that as a gay man I find some women attractive but not in a sexual way. I can just see beauty.
2006-07-01 05:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you wouldn't be considered gay. You simply think they are attractive. Now if you were attracted TO them, that would be different.
2006-07-01 03:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, a straight male gets attracted to anything remotely feminine even if it is a beautiful male.
So a straight male appreciating another male's beauty or even taking him to bed for this matter does not make him gay. As simple as that!!!
2006-07-01 11:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Leo H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say not...There nothing wrong with anyone looking at the same sex and thinking they are attractive...Us girls look and say things about girls,It's been like this for many many years...
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2006-07-01 02:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that premise was correct, everyone would be gay. Finding attractiveness in people who share your sexual characteristics is a way of judging yourself. Completely animalistic and normal -- not gay.
2006-07-01 02:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by cranura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if they just appreciate the person's physical beauty. Being gay means being sexually attracted to your own gender, doesn't it?
2006-07-01 02:49:10 · answer #11 · answered by brenopa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋