help this crying girl...im need help?

Question

if u tell someone u love goodbye, and their reply was.."dont curse at me" I dont know why I f*ck with you???? U know I think I should never talk to u anymore.." (which no cursing happened) wouldnt u take that as him being angry because I said good-bye.. but thats what he said to me.

thank u all...bless u

Answer 1

Your statement is a little confusing. Is this good-bye like going away to college, vacation, the military or breaking up?

For the temporary good-bye it would seem he feels threatened that you may find someone else in the interim of your parting. If it's a farewell good-bye for good...of course he's angry his heart is breaking.

Answer 2

If you're crying, you do need help, but not the kind you're looking for. What you need is self-help. Here's my response;
1. He ain't worth one teardrop, so don't waste any over him.
2. He's shown you his true colors, which will save you a lot of disappointments and heartaches later on.
3. He's made a choice (doesn't want to talk with you anymore) don't feel bad about this, he's done you a big favor. Move on - don't look back, have no more to do with him. If you do, it's only a matter of time before he'll do it again.

Answer 3

You are right, you need help.

Are they normally like that or just because you said Good bye did they start yelling this sort of stuff at you?

Chances are he is trying to be mean so it will be easier for you to leave and for him to accept it. It tends to be a reaction of people who are hurting and desire for the person who caused the pain to also hurt -- this is the retaliation for rejection.

Get it?

Answer 4

are you saying you said goodbye to someone and they said to stop curseing, when you didn't curse? maybe they were under stress. was someone moving away? the stress of parting may have made him snap.
people sometimes say things that don't make sense under stress.

Answer 5

Dont worry about him being mad. If he talks to you that way........you shouldnt waste your time anyway! He sounds like a jerk!

Take a deep breath.........now take another deep breath......now take another deep breath. now go wash your face....give yourself a smile in the mirror and tell yourself that you are worth more that someone treating you in a sh**y manner! You shouldn't allow ANYONE to treat you that way....Now BELIEVE IT!!!!!!!! Go take a hot bubble bath....watch a movie....do something for YOURSELF that makes you feel good! Don't rely on anyone else to do that! Good luck hon!

Answer 6

You haven't given us any real details to answer you with. If you're divorcing your husband, then of course he's going to go a little nuts on you. If your a kid going off to college, then its a whole other story. Sorry, but we need details!

Answer 7

this person sounds like an evil jerk who is not worthy of your tears. move on. let him be. he doesn't deserve you. and if he should some day realize the error of his ways and come crawling back to you, do yourself a favor and remember how easy it was for him to violate your emotions and gracefully say "No thanks, I deserve better"

What gives him the right to speak to you that way?

Answer 8

haha..i second the motion of ambervisions..after that, go outside or go to an internet cafe and chat to the max..haha..you can even meet a single handsome in that cafe..goodluck! dry those tears away..dont ruin your day kid!! just let me know if youve gotten one already..im willing to give advise..haha

Answer 9

its a good thing you said goodbye because he's messed up in the head

Answer 10

Then that's what he meant. He doesn't sound like he is wrapped to tightly. Get the duct tape and be glad you are leaving. He's low.