2006-06-30 18:20:18 · 59 answers · asked by mhkid94 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
make your mind free and think of her for some time on the evening times. if you come to know that you also like her there is no problem. if you don't like her, just say it straightly because, if you continue with out expressing the truth, day-by-day her love on you will grow and at the end, you'll not only hurt her but her parents also.
if you don't like her, say it. immediately
if you like her, say it immediately
2006-06-30 18:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sudheendra Rayabhagi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think any one who hesitates with the soul of another needs to check in with themselves. Obviously if you cannot answer it quickly without a doubt means you care for her perhaps, but don't want to commit either way. Depending on your age, and depending on your definiton of girlfriend, might also mean if there is sex involved heistation means loosing this aspect of the current relationship. If there is no sex at risk (loosing it), but move on quickly to allow her to move on, rather than fake what's not in you, like/love. Makes no difference, if you don't enjoy her company most of the time, and you too don't laugh with each other, what's the point of spending time together. What you do is your business, but the best communication is telling her the truth asap, and go from there, otherwise, it will lead to low self esteem issues that might arise from any other excuse you want to use to break off with her. Honest, direct, communication rather than the standard bs guys use and end up doing more damage than good. Good luck....
2006-07-13 01:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by allwomanequalpercent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question, then the relationship is already one-sided. Uncertainty about your feelings for her is a true sign that the two of you may need to part ways. Ask yourself how did she become your girlfriend before you were sure that you liked her. Regroup and release. Good Luck!
2006-07-14 01:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, she likes you , you dont like her , but you dont want to hurt her
the worst action with a human being is to hurt him , physically or mentally ,
in this selfish world if your girl friend likes you , love you by heart ,
it is a great successs for you.
If you want to have a happy life , wealth is less and a sincere g. friend is more important.
you made her fall in love with you , and now you are not sure you like her or not , my openion is that you will like her if you make her your life partner and and seriously become a real friend with her.
By the way , if you leave her , heart her innocent sentiments , and find another one whom you are really sure you like her to the max. , but she is not sure weather she likes you or not , what the result shall be.
Dear friend , this is the stage you are going to make a mistake , a life mistake , as i am not sure you shall think upon these sentences.
What ever decession you take please remember this answer and if possible send your views after 5 to 10 years ,
2006-07-13 21:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by peace for all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is always a tough situation. I recently had to break up with my boyfriend who I think was really attached to me. I know you definitely don't want to hurt her, but here's the hard part: it's unavoidable. Be as polite and mature as you can. Try to point out your flaws rather than hers when explaining why the relationship isn't going to work anymore. If you don't like her, then it's truly the best thing to do to break up with her. I know I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't really like me.
2006-07-11 16:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure that you like her, in what sense is she your girlfriend? If you're not sure that you like her, you should let her go. The longer you wait, the more it will hurt her. Believe me, I know this from personal experience. Don't waste their time, that's the most valuable thing any of us have in this short-life.
2006-07-13 17:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, loving someone deeply gives you courage.
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
so you should ask her what she likes about you, if u are pleased with the answer, u can jolly well considered her aa ''A grade'' gf material.
2006-07-10 21:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leading her on with a lie will make it worse than ever. Straight forward, break it off now and give some space. She will most likely be hurt, but will move on qucker this way.
2006-07-12 01:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her the way you HONESTLY feel. She will be hurt and maybe a little upset, but nobody wants to be with someone who doesn't want them. In the long run you will feel better and she will be grateful that you didn't string her along and hurt her. Good luck.
2006-07-11 12:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Gloria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did you learn that you don't like her? After having sex? Then you need to look inside you. Is it really you don't like her now or is it that you want to just move on as you have attained your goal.
If you two didn't have sex then tell her in a nice way that you two should part in grace.
2006-07-11 07:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by dipu_greg85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋