or lat least not oftin.
2006-06-30 18:13:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't be silly!
2006-06-30 18:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
A lot of married people have sex...unfortunately it is not with the person they are married to.
No, that is bitter. I am sorry.
Truthfully, I think that both parties have to do some creative work to keep sex vital and fun like it was when they first started dating. You have to remember that the sexiest organ in a person's body is the one between their ears: their brain. Married folks need to keep "dating" each other, not take sex and affection for granted. Easy to say but hard to do.
It often happens that a couple days goes by and then a week and then a month. Each person of the partnership thinks that the other one does not want sex. And so things like TV or video games or work or any number of distractions takes the place of sex. Neither one talks about it. It sits there like an elephant in the livingroom. Everyone tip toes around it, not saying a word.
Sometimes age or illness or meds mess with the sex drive of one. The other partner may interpret it as rejection. Happens all the time. Blood pressure and pain meds and antidepression meds all mess with desire.
So, yeah, married people can let the flame die but the real secret is that they do not have to. Hope this gives you some insight more than a just "nope" or "how else do they have kids?" answer.
2006-07-01 01:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by NeoArt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for ten years (a few decades ago) and we seldom had sex, none at all the last 4. But then we got divorced- gee wonder why? I had another ten year relationship with similar results. (There was a good reason there, but I'm not going into it here.) Anyway, I'd like to think it wasn't just me, and that the next and hopefully forever last relationship will be different.
I can say that nothing at all about my life could be considered "normal" in the general scheme of things.
2006-07-01 01:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by niteowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're dating someone it's all about chemistry. Once you're married it's about commitment and the chemistry is secondary. Once you have kids it's a crap shoot if you get to or not. I'm married and we're just as active as we were before. I don't know if that's the norm or not but I'm pregnant with our third child and the youngest is only 15 months old...that should tell you something. :) At the end of a pregnancy and in the very beginning (morning sickness) things aren't as regular as usual but it still happens.
2006-07-01 01:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's true at all. I'm not married but a lot of religious people believe the body is a temple and you should only have sex after marriage so a lot of people wait for it and then once they're married, it's free reign to have sex!
2006-07-01 01:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Coraa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is mostly exagerated. when I was married, I hit it at least 5 times a week, and that was for many years, right up until the marriage was over. usually it was more than 5 times a week, sometimes it was 5 times a day. when guys are cheating on their wife, they always tell the other woman they aren't and haven't had sex with their wife in years, which is a lie, he is usually banging both of them but new gurl don't want him dipping it in wifey poo and dipping it in her so he lies and tells her what she wants to hear.
2006-07-01 01:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with a buddy last weekend and after a few drinks he confided with me that he barely gets any sex from his wife and it really bothered him.. I was surprised. He told me that he spoke to some of the other married guys in our group and he is more the rule than an exception.
2006-07-01 01:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Pepe LePeu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely untrue. How else could they have children? And even though they have the kids, they still manage to have sex. They don't get to very often once they have kids, but it doesn't mean that they don't get to at all. Before kids, well... they have as much sex as the two of them both want.
2006-07-01 01:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fairly true.Once you get together,career,kids etc.. can make it challenging to get your groove on. An option is to make the time that you do have as special as possible.It doesn't have to be expensive. Foot rubs,snuggling touching,and trading massages can heat up the night. The occasional hotel room away from the crib can be fun also.Peace.
2006-07-01 01:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously haven't heard the joke. Kid walks into a drugstore with his father. Sees a pack of condoms. Daddy, what are these for? Well, son, to be honest with you, they're for sex. Well, why are there 3 of them? Well, they're for high school kids; one for Friday, Saturday, Sunday. Oh, he says. And what's the 6-pack for? Well, those are for college kids; two for Friday, Saturday, Sunday. Oh. Then what's the 12-pack for, daddy? Those, he says sadly, are for married people. One for January, February, March.........
2006-07-01 01:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by mhiaa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on who you ask and how old they are. I have been married for ten years and we do "it" at least 3 times a week sometimes more. men and women have different sex drives at different ages so sometimes it varries. When I was a little younger he wanted it more than me and now I want it more than him but we compromise. And sometimes its more than once a day and sometimes its only 3 times a week unless one of us is sick.
2006-07-01 01:18:09 · answer #11 · answered by nesha3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋