If one or both my parents die, will I be able to cope or kill my self soon after?We so close to each othe...?

Question

I have a wonderful relasionship with my parents ...sometimes I fear to loss 'em .I dont think I could take it,if they died ,and will rather kill my self I am so afraid.I Love my brothers and my only sister as well..what will I do without any of them?Will I die too or will I be able to accept one of em ,any of 'em or all of em death when ever happend as part of life and go on? what about you..

Answer 1

My mom died less than a year ago. First person in my life that has died that was that close to me. The most important thing that I can say to you is what I heard in Tuck Everlasting (rent the movie if you get the chance). "Don't be afraid of death, be afraid of a life unlived (or not lived)". Live your life for your family now, be everything to them that you can be. My mother knew I loved her more than anything. I keep in my wallet the last little note she wrote me. Life is still painful some days but the pain is a legacy to what a beautiful person she was, that's what my Dad says, isn't that sweet?

Answer 2

I've lost both my parents. I will tell you honestly, you feel like you want to die. But with time, you learn to accept that it is just a part of life. We get older, so do our parents, and at some point, we will lose them.
When my mom died I was 19. For the first few weeks I just dreaded waking up...I couldn't fathom how I would live the rest of my life without her. My dad ten years later, but it was still difficult to deal with. He had become this wonderful link to my mom, sharing stories of their early years together, etc. I knew, though, with him having been sick and being so unhappy without my mom, his passing just offered him the chance to be with my mom once again.
They say time heals all wounds. And it is true, it gets somewhat easier to accept that they are gone. But I'll tell you, there is not a day that goes by that I don't miss them. I'm forever grateful at the values they taught me and I feel very lucky to have had such great parents.
Don't dwell on what if or when it does happen. Enjoy the time you have with your parents now. Nothing ever prepares you for the passing of a loved one. Just enjoy the moments you can share as a family.

Answer 3

my mom and I were very close and when she died I felt like u do, but I had to realize what she would want, she wouldn't want me to end my life because her life ended. She would want me to go on and try to live my life to the fullest, it's hard at times because I miss her everyday and I wish that I could talk to and see her just one more time.But I know that she is watching over me and even though knowing that doesn't replace the pain that I feel inside, but I know that she she always there and all I can do is live each day one at a time.
So if your wondering if you would be able to cope with the lost of your family, in time I say YES. I'm dealing with the lost of my mom everyday and some days are a lot harder then others but with the LORDS help I'm making it as best as I can.
You will never forget them and because you love them so much, you just have to try and live your life to the fullest.

Answer 4

I have lost both of my parents and three siblings including my twin who I found deceased. I want you to know that grief takes time without a time limit. It's done in your own time. You do come to a place where you accept the loses you have even if at the time you can't imagine it.

My suggestion is to not waste time right now while you still have your loved ones with you. Make the most of your time with them. Don't let time go by without telling them how much you love them and how important they are in your life and giving hugs. When a loved one is gone, you will never regret giving love to them and receiving love from them.

Answer 5

You do not have to fear frankly anything if you believe in Jesus. If you accept Him into your heart you (and lets say your family does also) then will all have everlasting life. That means that if they die (which will not happen anytime soon) they will go to heaven. I don't know why you would see suicide as an answer to your question or as a solution to any of your problems that is just the easy way out of your problems (people who are afraid to confront life choose suicide as their only option). It should never be used as an answer to anything. If you have ever thought about these things it is the enemy (the devil) who is trying to scare you and rob you of your peace. I suggest you speak to a counselor or a spiritual guide at your church to see if they can help you see life in a different eye. As for me and my family I do not fear if I lose them, for I know they will go to heaven. Yes, they will be missed, but I know that they will be happier with Jesus. I hope this helps.

Worst case scenario (its not going to happen, but...):

Let's say you "loose them," then you can always find a mother or father figure in other caring people. Hope this helps. God bless you!

Answer 6

I lost both of my parents less than 2 years apart and had lost my brother who was my best friend 5 years earlier. It is very hard but your life has to continue for those that are left who love you. Would you want them to suffer the loss that you have? In the meantime, enjoy everyday you have all your loved ones near you. Treat them as if it were the last day of yours or their lives! Make sure you and all your loved ones are ready to meet God. Take care.

Answer 7

Let me tell you about me my father got kill when I was 13yrs.old. It hurt bad because my mother was left to raise 9 children on her own.
Then my mother pass when I was 24yrs.old I try the commit ed suicide stuff. But than I had to look at all my younger brother and sister and realize that we need each other more than ever
before. Yes it will hurt but you have to always remember that God have a plan for you and we
all have a reason for being here until Our Father
in heaven call you home.

Answer 8

Well, instead of worrying about their death now, worry about making their time on earth AWESOME! Love them to your full capacity. Have fun with them. Enjoy the time you are blessed with. Remember, you are never dealt any hand you can't deal with. I don't know if you are a religious person or not but God tells us that he will always take care of us and he would never give us something we couldn't handle. Please don't say that you are thinking of committing suicide if they die. Remember, good always comes out of bad. In some form, remember that it does, ok? Suicide is not the answer.

Time heals all wounds. Good luck.

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Answer 9

I was taken in by my grandparents at the age of 5. When they got sick and older the family wanted them to move to a lod folks home. I moved back with them and stay with them till they both passed ( two mos apart, one in Oct when it is me and my kids birthdays and in dec two days before christmas) It hurt me so bad to lose the ones who took me in and gave me a home but I know that they are always with me no matter when I am. Remember they are in your heart and nothing can take that. I am still living so you can to just keep your heart and thoughts and you will be fine.

Answer 10

Death is a part of life. I am a christian so I know that we will all(those saved) be reunited in heaven. Death is a very hard to cope with but we just have to accept that it will happen to all of us one day.