I'm 13 with a great boyfreind. He cares for me and respects me for who I am and not how I look. Though when it comes to getting a hold of him it doesn't work out to well. He never answers my calls or he never calls me. I always have to call him. It's been a week since I've actually talked to him. I miss him a lot, but I don't if he misses me back or still even wants to be with me. So what should I do? I know I already asked this question, but seriously what do I do? I really care for him and he really cares for me, but I can never reach him. So what do you think I should do?
2006-06-30 18:00:17 · 23 answers · asked by RAND0M CHiCk_♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
We have been going out since the Day of the Devil = 6/6/06
2006-06-30 18:09:33 · update #1
ok im 12 and i can see what your talking about,since im a guy your probably thinking im gonna say stay with hime but i cant lie if a girl treated me like that ill break up with her so wait another week dont call him,and if yall go to the same school have him start a conversation and if he dont,that means hes probably seeing someone else or he just don wanna be with you
i hope i helped see ya later
2006-06-30 18:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by lildibbz2 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I hate to tell you this, but 13 year old boys are very, very immature and you just proved this to be true by the way you described your "boyfriend." If he cared for you like he says he does, he would love calling you just to see how your day was and hear your voice, because that's what good boyfriends do. And at the age of 13, no guy is prepared to be a good boyfriend. I know its hard to let someone go when you really like them, but you have to because he doesn't respect you, and you should want more for yourself. Boys will get better by junior and senior year of high school and be better dating material, so take it easy before then and just have fun with your friends.
2006-07-01 01:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...you're 13!!! Have fun with guys!! At this age, none take you as seriously as you take them anyway. Leave him. Don't go out with anyone seriously until you're a little older. For now, check out all the guys you know. This is what to do: make a list of all the characteristics in these guys that you really like. Such as:
Intelligence, Honesty, Trustworthiness, No Drug Use, Ambition, Job, Car, etc
Then, when you're older, you'll have a list of all the things you're looking for in a serious boyfriend that you may consider for more than that. It really narrows down who you're looking for. After all, you don't have to lift the lid on every trash can to know what's in it...do you?
2006-07-01 01:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by bitto luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
m 21. so u should call me sis....i think the best think u should do is try to ask him for 1 more time if only u think that u love him so much or u can go to ask the person u belive in that can give u an answer.it can be his friend or his family......by the way if u cannot find the answer or he doesn't answer u..........plz think again what wrong with u 2 befor the day he went wrong? and think again is he real mean to u? can u live without him? for me, love is not the most important thing in my life. i hav parents the is much more important to me...and also my future. it just what i think! if u think it wrong or u don agree! forget what i say! okaY!
u know the most important for me is make myself happy all the time! n m a happy girl in this world! GOOD LUCK
2006-07-01 01:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by QQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him...what made you decide to go with him on the day of the devil? My mother has always told me, and it rings true this day: If his time is not with you, and he knows that he should fit you in, then his heart isn't with you. Translation: If you are not on his list of top priorities, move on. He doesn't care about you like you believe he does. You are wasting your precious time on someone who says they care but there actions are clearly telling you they don't. You are 13, there will be plenty more "boyfriends" for you. Don't waste your time on a loser (no offense). Good Luck!
2006-07-01 01:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by soulfli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is too young to have a serious relationship..your great boyfried is probably tied up with other things like friends, sports, video games...you get the point. Stop worrying and don't call him. Ever heard absence makes the heart grow fonder? He will start calling you and if he doesn't so what you have plenty of time ahead (when your out of college) for boyfriends.
2006-07-01 01:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by charbarski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, communication is a part of caring, and if he really did care, he would be trying to reach you, and be available for you to reach him. I think you should start dating other guys.
By the way, since you gave out your age, a word of warning. Don't allow any perverts who are reading this to come on to you. Don't give out your name, email, telephone, or location to anyone, and I would even go as far as to say don't even respond to any guy who tells you he is a guy about your age.
2006-07-01 01:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you get ahold of him, confront him on the issue. Ask why he doesnt call you, why you have to call him, why he doesnt pick up, and most of all IF HE REALLY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. If you arent satisfied with the answer or it leaves you with too many doubts, I would consider leaving him. Look deep inside tho, because it sems that you really like him. Think with your heart not your mind. Your mind leads you astray from what the heart really wants. any other questions about this answer feel free to contact me and we can talk about it more. Hope this helped
2006-07-01 01:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by knightwing808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweety,u are young u have the whole world to explore don't just sit around and wait on this boy.If he really liked u like u said,he would call u all the time.Don't worry there are plenty of other 13 year old boyz don't sit around and wait on him,he not waiting on u.Is he?Okay I understand were i am come from i know it is going to hurt but,u need to let him go.
~that gurl lady p~
2006-07-01 02:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by ladyp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could wait for him to come around or meet him at places you know he'll be at. Or maybe you should stop calling and wait for him to come crawling back to you. Or you could leave a message saying you want to take a break from each other, until you both have time for each other. I think that you still want him is sweet, but you might be drowning him in attention. Maybe you should let him breathe?
2006-07-01 01:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋