ok, i have known my friend for 8 years, I come to my dads house every summer and we hang out all summer along with the other neighborhood kids, well i have always thought she was a bit immature, she lies to her parents constantly, she through fits (screaming and crying) when she doesn’t get her way and she does things like through rocks, make fun of ppl, push people in pools and other stuff like that, anyways, at the beginning of the summer i was riding my 4 wheeler relatively fast and she troughs a rock hitting my knuckle, it hurt but normally i would have just blown it off like i always do but she had been doing stuff like this alot lately, then 1 day as she was walking home i started walking beside her and i set her straight, in the form of me telling her that I didn’t like how she was acting, no threats were made and no violence occurred, she is now mad at me because I spoke my mind, hell she wont even speak to me, i honestly don’t care but my girlfriend is telling me i need to apologize, I don’t think I need to but wht do you think??
2006-06-30 17:54:59 · 14 answers · asked by popeye 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she is 13 and i am 15, and no she doesnt like me
2006-06-30 17:55:55 · update #1
ok, it isnt my girlfriend tht i have the prblm with, she is just telling me i should apologise, it is my friend tht i have the prblm with
2006-06-30 18:46:22 · update #2
OK well first of all i did the same thing to one of these annoying girls becuz she pushed me off the bleachers.. and you know what i dont regret it either itold her off and that was the end and i am not saying that you should do the same but this girl had been doing this to me since i was in 2nd grade and iam now going to be in 9th..anyway i dont think you should appologize becuz you did nothing wrong but if you feel bad for what you did then i would but from what i hear it is a bad situation.how old was she anyway?? well thats my sugesstion and you know what my bf was trying to get me to tell the girl sorry too but i couldnt bring myself to do it so its not bad at all ok well hope I hope i helped you...bye
2006-06-30 19:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, dont apologize...there is nothing to apologize for, you were telling her how you felt, you cant apologize for your feelings....especially is she has a habit of doing obnoxious things like that! SHE should be the one to apologize for how rude she has been being to everyone around her! Just give her time, she will come around...she cant stay mad at you forever! She is probably just embarrassed because no one has put her in her place before like you did! I say, CONGRATULATIONS for setting her straight...she will get over it soon enough and be back at the same tricks! =)
2006-06-30 18:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what your girlfriend tells you to do so you need to apologize to her. since your only a year older then her (because i know your really 14) you should apologize for hurting her feelings but don't apologize for what you said. that way she won't be mad at you any more and your girlfriend will leave you alone. at least you set her straight and if she keeps doin that $hit then just ignore her instead it will drive her crazy.
2006-06-30 18:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize? HELL NO, don't apologize for being honest. she sounds like a brat and she's a couple years younger than you so your obviously on different maturity levels. don't give her so much attention she probably craves it, eventually if you act like your not bothered by her hating you, and just act completely normal as if nothing has happened she'll come around. but you were right about telling her cuz i know one thing, ain't nobody gonna be throwing sh!t at me!
2006-06-30 18:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Q the genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get your girlfriend and tell her this is what i am going to say to her.........
I'm sorry for yelling at you but i am not sorry for telling you to grow up.. you hurt me when you threw that rock.
And if you can accept the fact that what you did was childish then we do not need to be friends anymore..
if the g/f will not accept that then tell her to go date her then because you are standing your ground..
2006-06-30 18:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have lost a friend but it is important to speak your mind, she may have just kept on doing this if you hadn't said something to her.
I told my best friend once that she was a compulsive liar to her face, and she is anyway. She was taken back by what I said but I think because she knows it is the truth anyway it didn't really bother her as much.
2006-06-30 17:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't be mad at you for being honest. being honesty is the best thing a person could have. you sound like a great friend so don't worry!!! it's not your loss...it's hers becuz now she is missing out on a great friend like you.
2006-06-30 20:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by RAND0M CHiCk_♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't apologize for speaking your mind. Its the first amendment-Freedom of speech!
2006-06-30 19:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is knows it that it is wrong but she is afraid that u may leave her as she thinks that incidence might have created a sense of inferiority for u so its not over talk freely wit her
2006-06-30 18:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone needs to be told off sometimes...she just isnt used to someone standing up for her. no need to apologize.
2006-06-30 17:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by jaijay15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋