im just asking cus all most of my black friends,and my mom and dad doesnt like the idea of me going out wit him.
2006-06-30 17:48:48 · 27 answers · asked by shawna j. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nothing is wrong with it, if it makes you happy, then who cares what the others think, its your life so make it the best you can.....
2006-06-30 17:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, if he is a good guy, taking care of business, like in school or working, and respectful of you by all means go for it. Ask your parents/friends this: Would you rather have me date a white guy that is on the right track, going somewhere with his life, and treats me good, or a black guy that is not on the right track, dogs me out, and basically is a loser. If you had to choose which one would you rather have me with??? I am not saying that all people of these nationalities are like I am describing, I am saying hopefully this question will help them see the bigger picture and get past his color. I had to break it down to my parents like this when I married outside my race. PS if you two do get together and have children someday, they will be georgous because the will pull the best from both of you!!!!!!
2006-07-01 00:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo...There is definitely nothing wrong with that. Color means nothing. If you really like him, he really likes you, and you don't care what other people think, there will be no problem. The only reason people would care is if you let them. And as for your parents, just explain to them that you like him and he is a really nice guy. Let them meet the guy and if they still don't like the idea, maybe you should reexamine the situation and ask them why they feel that way.
2006-07-01 00:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by nobodyinparticular...lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love sees no color sweetie, do what your heart tells you to do, you have to live your life not your friends or family. I myself adopted a black little girl and we are a white family, maybe that is hope for you, races CAN and DO mix! Be strong and good luck!
2006-07-01 00:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself, does it bother me to be in this relationship? Everybody is ragging on me, but I like the guy. I'm in the relationship not them. if you can asnwer yourself that it doesn't bother you, then go ahead and have fun. your human, you can not say who you are going to fall for. and neither can they. I didn't let anyone tell me about anyone I dated. I was involved with several black women. One of which I was going to marry. I was engaged to her. Just go have fun and don't worry waht everyone says!
2006-07-01 01:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by jtracer48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two brothers married to white females and I dated white females in highschool ,but I hate seeing sistas with white dudes. I guess it depends on where you are at. Are there any brothers around you.
2006-07-01 01:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by leodjoneluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I happen to be a product of a bi-racial relationship, and to me when people ask questions like these, it's an insult to me. Love sees no color.
2006-07-01 00:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what the others think , there is nothing wrong with it , we ar all just people under our skins.
2006-07-01 00:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by shotie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think it real great black men go out with white women all of the time i think what you are doing is great go for it.
2006-07-01 00:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im shawn and im dating a white girl, and i think its a good think.....and its kind of reflective for a black girl to date a white dude too.....nothing that you like is wrong......
2006-07-06 14:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by GrotesqueNN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋