I am getting married in another 2 months, i am curious to know how will be the "First Night". I am indian.
2006-06-30 17:41:35 · 9 answers · asked by Kris4u4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh hun, alright have you had the sex talk with mom? I'm guessing probably not? If you haven't then I'm kinda going to talk you through it. Now hopefully you love your future husband? If not it's going to be a difficult road. I'm not sure what he's going to be expecting, but if you are both virgins you're going to be scared to death and not know what to do. Now I'm not sure if it's custom in your country, but most married couples do have sex the first night. Now when you get to where ever you two are spending your first night together, you're going to have to take off your wedding clothes into some bedclothes (pajama's PJ's whatever you call them). Now what happends beyond that, kissing, feeling, touching, is going to be really nerve wracking for you. Try your best to relax and relize that this is your husband and you two are going to make this journey together. Now I'm not going to go into full on sexual positions what you should do, but I am going give you some sites to look at if you're curious. But the best information can come from your mom. As embarassing as it is, ask her how it was for her. Ask her what she felt, her feelings, how she coped with the situation.
2006-06-30 17:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jacci 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin and your girl too, you probably would have a lot of fun. Otherwise also may be??
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2006-07-01 00:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pollycaber 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just got married on tha 1st of April (yea April fools wedding yea yea yea) and dat nite was da BEST EVER and i been wit my wife 3 yrs b4 we got married
2006-07-01 03:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by nesoileau 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Frn.it will be difficult the first day...just relax and hold on to your breath and feel that today is the day when you have deliver your best.
2006-07-01 01:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intercourse may be a bit painful to start. Ask your new husband if you can kiss and caress for a long time, possibly bringing you to climax, before penetration. It will be worth his trouble.
2006-07-01 00:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
researchers say : marriage makes a woman more likely to become depressed; a man, less likely.
2006-07-01 00:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, It depends on whom you are marrying, and under what circumstances.
2006-07-01 00:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bill S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont drink too much and everything will be alright. if you are a virgin, just relax, it might hurt a little bit.
2006-07-01 00:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the husband will take off your cloths and insert his penis to your areas.
2006-07-07 08:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋