i'v never had sex befor any one have tips on what to do when i first have sex :)
2006-06-30 17:33:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
My advise would be (if you're sure you want to do it. I mean really really sure!) to be slow, patient, and safe. The first time may hurt, you might be unsure of whats going on, and, because of lack of experience, you are more likely to make mistakes. Most mistakes are ok, but when being intimate, ALWAYS be safe. It is true that all forms of 'protected' sex are NOT 100% effective at stopping pregnancy or stopping disease. <- keep that in mind!
Don't be afraid to ask questions, find out what your partner likes, see if they want to do something. But also, don't be afraid to make your own decisions, to say 'no' if you feel unsafe, or to tell your partner to stop, or go slow if something hurts.
And if you are female, it may very well hurt the first few times. If you are having sex with someone whom you truly love, it forms a very deep connection with that person!
2006-06-30 17:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK it would be smart to get married with the person you truly love and couldn't picture your life any other way then with them that you share his with and let it be who you are!
2006-07-01 00:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont! unless your married. read a thing called the Bible if u arent married and want to have sex, it will help
2006-07-01 00:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Balletbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u sure about this (u should!) then just relax and go with the flow, u and ure body will know how to react and learn about it bit by bit. so good luck!
2006-07-01 00:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by mystic_fish_white 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married.
2006-07-01 00:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by otexasgirlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah make sure you're of age than go with the flow
2006-07-01 00:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by val26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm and relaxed and ask your partner to have long 4play and then ............. use protection..... and by the way is it his first as well???
2006-07-01 00:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a "tip" for ya.
2006-07-01 00:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure that you really love the guy and he loves you the same otherwise you might feel awful afterwards..........
2006-07-01 00:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come here and we will talk about it in private!
=)
2006-07-01 00:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋