No offense, but if you are asking how can you get a girlfriend, and making the statement that you want someone hot, I have to come to these conclusions:
1) You are not as attractive as the "dream girl" you want. Don't take this offensive. I am not calling you ugly. You may be an average Joe, and super hot women are looking for someone that stands out and catches their attention. Sorry, if you don't fit the bill change your attitude. There may be an average Jill watching for you and because of your attitude, you may not be able to see her.
2) Your spelling. You may not be a genius, but that doesn't mean that you are a step away from being mentally challenged either. All women want someone who is intelligent or smart (translation someone who doesn't ride the short yellow bus) to stimulate them mentally. If you can't stimulate her mentally, you just about have a snowball's chance in hell to stimulate her sexually. Its not impossible, it is just a rule some of us use. Mental stimulation often leads to sexual stimulation.
3) You can't get out much. Try doing more activities that help increase your personality. Don't limit yourself to macho manly things either. Men go to the gym to meet women. Try that or a yoga class, you'd be surprised.
These are just small suggestions. It is not an attack on you or your character. It is a small dose of what women want. It is meant to help you.
2006-06-30 19:12:56
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answered by soulfli 3
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The best way to find a girlfriend is to go out alot, be open minded and talk to everyone. When you talk to a girl listen to what she says (with a quick hook up it doesn't matter but in a relationship communication is vital) and if you agree with 70% of it then ask her out ALOT! If she likes you then you've got a girlfriend.
Also it's important to smell good and dress for the girl you want
2006-07-14 09:33:12
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answered by ? 2
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thats not all that u need out of someone is someone who is just hot, they need to have a great personality if u want to have a good relationship it needs to be about feelings and connection, think of someone like the girl next door she may not be noticable but u might find out ur crushing on someone u never thought possible..just dont try too hard to get a girl friend, and dont make it obvious that is all u want is their sense of hottness
much luck!
Brooke
2006-06-30 17:33:10
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answered by sheala 2
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Then go to clubs or bars or even local college campuses and hope to meet someone. Strike up a conversation, if it fails then just move on. Learn to deal with rejection and you'll get a lot more acceptances than you'd expect.
2006-06-30 17:30:49
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answered by Skitz628 2
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First of all...........the asking for someone hot part might be a turn off. lol That is just an added bonus. Look for personality and heart and similar interests for something long lasting. That type will show up where you least expect it.....at work.......an event ect.
2006-07-11 18:36:44
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answered by roo 2
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be yourself dont be fake tell a chick you like her you will probably be surprised most girls wait for the guy to make the first move. Have confidence in your personality, and this might sound really shallow and its out of character for me but if all else fails buy a hummer. Something about htose hummers they could make napolean dynamie look irresistable
2006-06-30 17:35:08
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answered by pooh bear 4
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Just go some party or club and when u see a girl that u want to meet just go to her ask her for her name , dance with her and get to know each other girls r straight forward. Then in the end ask her for her phone number.
2006-06-30 17:34:43
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answered by T_claire 3
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Why do you want a hot girl? Just because you want to get laid with? Wow, how about a strip teaser? I bet she's HOT enough for you. Maybe soooooooooo hot that you get burned!!! Watch out for her!!!
2006-07-14 16:34:03
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answered by danielle s 2
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girls are looking for a sensitive guy with a great personality, but if that means changing yourself or comprimising some part of you, dont.... there's some one out there for everyone and if you're not being yourself, than you might just miss her when she comes around.... try and go to places that speak for your personality and im sure you'll meet the right girl....
2006-07-11 04:19:31
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answered by Anonymous
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if u 24 y u askin ppl in da preteen an teens section how ta get a girlfriend
2006-06-30 17:50:55
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answered by ChickDasThick 2
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