My and this guy have been close friends for five years now and we aren't talking cuz I got mad at him cuz he treated me like I was nobody. People keep on telling me I need to get over it and start talking again cuz its stupid. But I believe in what I feel and I know its not stupid. So why do people tell me to get over it when they know how much its tearing me up inside. It maked me feel more stupid.
2006-06-30 17:21:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's got a GF who hates me. And everytime I tell him how he is treating me he says he will treat me better and treats me worse instead.
2006-06-30 17:27:18 · update #1
You need to talk to your friend ASAP. I think that maybe you feel stupid because you know that by not talking it is only going to end up hurting your relationship with him. If this is a friend that you truly want to keep then call him go out corner him in the hall and make him talk. Do whatever you can to fix this. Tell him how you feel and that no matter what he says he cannot tell you how to feel but you do not want to lose him and that you want to put it behind you. Ask yourself is this arguement going to effect the rest of my life? Will it decide on the type of person that I am to become? Is this a person that I want in my life? If you answer no to the first two and yes to the third then you know what you need to do. Dont lose a potentially great friend and confidant over a misunderstanding. Please go talk to him. You are entitled to your feelings just dont let feelings cloud your judgement.
2006-06-30 17:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by lvb524 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say keep going with the "not talking to him" thing. He sounds like the stupid one. People who tell you to do things that go against what you are feeling... frequently they are stupid, too. Be sure on one more thing: Never call yourself stupid again. When you tell yourself that kind of crap, you start to believe it.
2006-06-30 17:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've been there. All I can say is talk to him. If his girlfriend doesn't like that tough for her. If he's really a good friend like you say he is then he'll start acting like it again. And finally your not stupid just make sure you do talk to him.
2006-06-30 17:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by Meli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not stupid but really they are kinda right and kinda not. you should talk to him but he shouldnt treat you that way! ik how much it must be hurting u cuz one of my friends is treating me the same way!
i hope things work out!
2006-06-30 17:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to stand up for what you believe in, but time will heal and make you forget and you will be able to start talking again if you want.
2006-06-30 17:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's ur frend, and it sound like you actually love him. ur yearningggg for his affection. but try not to make such a big deal out of it. just step back a bit and look at the big picture. do u like him? maybe he can tell that you do, or he thinks u do like him, so he's tryin to send out a msg dat says: HEY!! I HAVE A GIRLFREND, AND U NO IT! I NO UR MY FREND, BUT LETS KEEP IT THAT WAY! i no it hurts, but if it is absolutely killing u inside, then girl, u like him.
2006-07-01 10:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by michie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wallowing in it makes things worse. You are not stupid, because you cannot predict emotions.
You have two choices. Patch it up with him or move on. That's it, as it's a short menu.
2006-06-30 17:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him again if you guys were really good friends then its not worth fighting over that he probably gets it now that you didnt like whatever he did so you should just be friends again life is too short for that stuff
2006-06-30 17:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is stupid cuz it sounds like you LOVZE HIM call him ask him out and live happily ever after (or 4 as long as u can )
2006-06-30 17:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by guitar and skating addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it maked you feel more stupid, then it was worth doing.
2006-06-30 17:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋