My partner has an anger problem. When I make mistakes or does not live up to his expectations, I am called names and labelled "stupid b_t_h". It gets to the point that I get used to the names, even though I know I do not deserve to be called as such.
Any comments will be greatly appreciated.
2006-06-30 17:21:02 · 6 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its time to move on. Verbal abuse can lead to physical abuse. You dont deserve to be treated that way. He shouldnt call you names like that. Just know that verbal abuse isnt ok and that you shouldnt have to go throught that.
2006-06-30 17:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been that, like you say your partner is, person before.
It is unfortunate but I don't think he will ever change. He is comfotable doing what he is doing.
I know that no matter what programs I tried, My actions did not change with my Ex wife. There were a lot of contributing factors, on her behalf, that pushed me to my actions. The bitterness I felt towards her did not change, because she did not change.
Because of the deep seeded hatred the two of us had for one another, neither of us could ever change enough in the others eyes to make things ever work out.
Even trying to stick it out for the children did not help.
We are better off being apart now. It has been 6 years now.
I know now that no matter what contributing factors there were, my actions, reactions, were wrong. I know now that there are many ways that I could have acted to try and resolve the problems that the two of us were having. Unfortunately, I did not untill it was too late. I lost everything that was suposed to mean everything to me.
I wish you luck.
If you want more info, don't hessitate to contact me. I will help you in any way I can.
2006-06-30 18:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by ouwx104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make a mistake you don't deserve to be called names. You are setting yourself up for worse things to come. You say you are at fault, but you're not. It's not your fault that your partner can't control their anger problem. No one deserves to be treated like that.
2006-06-30 17:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your partner has a control problem a n d he has no respect for you. My advice to you is to get out of the relationship. What are you going to do if he starts hitting you. Don't let him control you, your not his puppet. Good Luck!
2006-06-30 18:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is the same way. if he doesnt agree with what i am saying he automatically thinks it is a personal attack and starts with the names. even though there is no hitting involved it is still domestic abuse. if you look up a domestic violence website and read all the signals and what it is it will be a reality check. i would ask them if they would be willing to go to couples counseling if you are looking to keep the relationship.
2006-06-30 17:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by sex_c_tink21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from that jerk ! You can do much better. no one deserves to be called names
2006-07-14 17:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋