Why is it hard for friends to help us when we are in need? but we find that it's appropriate for us to help them when they have difficulties?
2006-06-30 16:49:00 · 3 answers · asked by naushinn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its called being codependant. Feeling the need to help others with their own issues to the point of ignoring our own. Often without being asked. Read up on codependency, i did just a little while back and my goodness it explained alot.
2006-06-30 16:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Coz some of them don't really want to help when you need help. There is such a saying " True friends will standby you in times of hardship". So friends that standby you and help you, are your true friend .
2006-07-01 22:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it mean we are more commited to the friendship then they are
2006-06-30 23:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by divapoopylou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋