in other words do you believe in love at first sight and has this type of thing ever happened to you?
2006-06-30 16:35:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course it can and it did happen to me.
2006-06-30 16:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by knitting guy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's no more glancing than with me and nothing more odd than me. Gosh, is it just fate, serendipity, or really love at first sight? For me, I do believe in love at first sight.
Prior to meeting my wife, I had never dated anyone in my life (23 then). Only came close twice (1st grade, and 7th grade) as in asked, but they were more on dares than real wanting to go out. FYI, both said NO.
I met my wife the first day at a new job. I was being introduced to everyone by the HR person that had interviewed me. When we finally went to the 13th floor to go to my work station, I saw this absolutely beautiful lady sitting at the corner workstation. I could not believe how beautiful she was. As we kept on walking and walking towards that general area, the only thing that went through my mind was "I hope I get to sit in that empty seat next to her." As fate would have it... I DID !!!
She turned out to be everything I was looking for in a girlfriend, beautiful face, beautiful body, lovely smile, spoke the same second language I did, was smart... only thing, she had a boyfriend in the company, which I didn't know until two weeks later...
Anyhow, to make a long long story not so much longer, her relationship was a bad one, so I waited it out for 15 months and we finally started dating. 6 years later, we got married, now another six years of marriage and two children and I'm still as much, if not more in love, with my wife...
I loved her from the moment I saw her when I turned that corner on the 13th floor... who says 13 is a bad number?
2006-07-07 23:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer is personal to me. I am married(7 years), me and my wife met thru a mutual friend earlier in 1990, we talked for six months over the phone, never seeing each other or just missing each other where she worked. The day before we agreed to meet for the first time I told her I would pick her up(what I would be wearing and where I would be standing). When we meet that day(Nov. 1,90) I knew I had to make her mine. The rest is history and three kids later we are still in love.
2006-06-30 23:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No You might fall in lust at that point, but love comes from getting to know the person and "loving" things about them and what they do and what they believe. That takes time.
2006-06-30 23:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can and I beleive it happened to me...I didn't love the guy because of his looks, I mean I knew alot of guys that were way better looking than him, but there was just something about him that made me know that we'd be something more. Now, friends have contradicted the possibilty, and they provide good points, but I haven't changed my mind. I believe in it and it happened to me.
2006-06-30 23:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, it's lust at first sight (but screw it..it's fun as hell, right? right.) You had it happen to you, huh? Sometimes you just really click. I'm totally into going overboard tho.. I kind of look for it/compatability when it 'ain' there..' (I'm in love with love.) It hurts like hell .. I write somebody on here and think they're cool as hell then they just dump my *** (quit writing.. ******* cowards, men are..) and that sux royal, man! (sorry for all the bad language.. I'm more ladylike talking as a rule. I know they asterisk the **** outta me!)_
2006-06-30 23:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I DON'T. I'LL TELL YOU THO I DO BELIEVE THEY CAN BECOME INFATUATED OR EVEN OBSESSED WITH A PERSON AT FIRST GLANCE AND AN ODD CONVERSATION, THAT'S TOTALLY POSSIBLE. BUT WHEN YOU FALL INLOVE, I MEAN YOU FREAKING FALL INLOVE, THAT ENTAILS TOO MUCH TO JUST FALL AT FIRST SIGHT.
2006-06-30 23:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhhmmmm no...i believe in physical attraction at first sight and then once the conversations click then maybe love but then again im one of those people who doesnt give their heart out easily anymore
2006-06-30 23:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had this happen and seriously thought it was love. I don't think that's possible. I believe it's just chemistry and lust. I don't think you can honestly, whole-heartedly love someone until you really get to know them deep down.
2006-06-30 23:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by johannabnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not gonna say yes cuz it takes me a long time to even like someone. i'll probably interested in u n get to know the person when i first c him, n by getting to know him, i'll fall in love.
2006-06-30 23:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by queensephora_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah its possible if you really felt like teh conversatino was clicking and he/she was just amazing and you felt this realy big conection between you to then yeah and love at first sight is so true!
2006-07-06 17:20:27 · answer #11 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋