how do i get him to trust me again. i was chatting with these guys cause i play Yahoo Pool and found a couple of people that dont talk like pigs. but he sees that i am talking to guys and gets so insecure. he totally doenst trust me at all.
2006-06-30 16:32:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can totally relate. One way that helped me was to let my husband see me talking to other men when he was around, and let him be included in the conversations. If you act sneaky or try to hide it from him, he'll get suspicious and with good reason!
2006-06-30 16:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by johannabnny 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well, this kinda sounds familiar. I don't think I am 'all that' but ya hit the nail on the head, gf.. the guy's insecure as hell.. (well, my ole man's kinda impotent.. we're mid 50-s.. and I like to get on the puter.. that does it.) I did get involved w/some ole h.s. boyfriend and got divorced..from Classmates/off the internet. (So, ****, I guess I can see why Dave's all bent out of shape..ha) I got on here and some asshole EMT living across town started writing me **** about going out in the countryside and screwing me, **** like that.. I thought the guy was a total pig, but i kept writing the asshole.. Yeah, the computer sux sometimes. (Hell, I live forever w/this guy I am with now, I'll blow my brains out first.) well, anhow, in answer to your question, I don't think there is much of anything (just time will heal it.. he'll see you are on the up and up.. but it'll take a couple months) you can do. Ya wanna get on line? do it.. nobody's worth ******* up your life for, man.. (don't be me!)
2006-06-30 23:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him. I don't mean, go to bed with him, I mean screw that loser... have you heard the saying that the accuser is usually the guilty party? You might want to check up on HIM, I would tell him to get over it. Whatever you do, DON'T let him isolate you from your friends. They are your support when he acts like a jerk. Seriously, keep an eye on his behavior...and stop worrying about whether or not he trusts you, if you are not doing anything wrong. Jealousy is one form of controlling you and right now he is yanking your strings like Pinnochio.
2006-06-30 23:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU HAVE TO TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHERE HE'S COMING FROM FIRST OF ALL, I MEAN HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF THE SHOE WAS ON YOUR FOOT, YOU WOULD PROBABLY BE PISSED. I KNOW I WOULD. MY MAN AIN'T GOT NO BUSINESS CHIT CHATTING WITH NO CHICKS ON THE INTERNET! AND YOU SHOULDN'T EITHER.
I KNOW IT'S INNOCENT FUN, BUT NOT TO YOUR HUSBAND. SO MAYBE YOU SHOULD REALLY TALK TO HIM AND SHOW HIM THE PROOF OF WHAT YOU'VE WRITTEN AND TELL HIM THAT IF IT MAKES HIM FEEL SO BAD, WELL YOU'LL RESPECT HIM AND YOU WON'T DO IT NO MORE. AND IF THAT DOESN'T WORK, THEN BUY HIM FLOWERS AND CANDY, IF THAT DOESN'T WORK, KICK HIM IN THE A$$!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-30 23:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time and hard work to earn trust back once it's broken maybe you chatnetwork needs to consist of females only for a long while until he feels comfortable.
2006-06-30 23:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do You Think You Was Kinda Wrong For That?Is Your Husband Black?
2006-06-30 23:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Erin T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and honest about it. My husband is fully aware of who I talk to online, and he doesn't like it necessarily. But it's like I told him, if I had something to hide then I wouldn't tell him about it. Sheesh, I'm not that stupid lol. Good luck.
2006-06-30 23:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite your Husband to join you when you talk to these Guys, if your talk is innocent he will see for himself.
2006-06-30 23:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be jealous if the roles were reversed and you know it
2006-06-30 23:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋