2006-06-30 16:29:19 · 7 answers · asked by bumlimas 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
lol...... I just laughed my *** off..... Are you really THAT conservative?!
You're American, right?! Only an American woman can ask something like that.....
In most countries on this earth, girls start having sex with 14/15/16, so they can't be married at that time.....
IMHO, late sex can cause more problems than early sex, because sex is good for the blood circulation in that kind of area.
Sex will never cause any problems. The only exceptions are infections, but you can't get any if your fiance is also still a virgin.
I recomment sex with your fiance before you marry. The day you marry, in the eving, you will not be able to have as good sex as in other nights, because of the whole stress about the marriage.
It's up to you, but morally and physically it's perfectly okay to have sex with your fiance if you really love him and want to marry him.
2006-07-01 05:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ sannah ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The problems it creates are not physical as much as they are spiritual and emotional. You can do yourself REAL Self-immage problems as well as get real pregnant. Don't go there until AFTER you are married. There will be plenty of time then. If your boyfriend just can't wait, question whether he really loves you or just wants you as a sex toy. Don't go there. You are the one that will be pregnant and will have to live with yourself the rest of your life. What if you give him sex and then he goes down the road. You are now "Used material" for any nice guy that might come along. Keep your pants on girl, It will be worth it for years to come, or when you do find the right guy.
2006-06-30 23:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lindasue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, only the possibility of having a conception and a child when you didn't want to raise a baby yet.
Use contraceptive methods, he can use a condom or you can use pills for some months until you are used to handle your couple life,and you are ready to let a little third party get between you.
2006-06-30 23:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm...no. I had premarital sex, got married, now have 2 boys. It's not about when you have sex. It's about with whom, and how your body works.
2006-06-30 23:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by fighter1174 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but that's what the religious right wants you to think...
just make sure you educate yourself about birth control and disease prevention. Planned Parenthood all the way!
2006-06-30 23:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by sawkmawnkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think so. My sister had sex with her husband before they were married and they plan on having kids someday.
2006-06-30 23:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, but I know its not necessarily an activity that He wants for us.
Good wishes and blessings,
Cheryl
2006-06-30 23:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋