my husband works 2nd shift and gets home at 1:30 am... hes always ready for sex.. and im not hate doing it just because he wants too. i dont get anything out of it becuase im not turned on enough when he wants it... what should i do....
2006-06-30 16:23:05 · 9 answers · asked by shandafightsfire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should stop acting like a sex slave. If you are not in the mood...Don't do it! Are you a partner or property?
2006-06-30 16:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband used to work the night shift too - so I know what you mean... I used to take a long hot bath - candles the whole thing - and then dress nice -- i mean bedroom nice - and then get thinking about what we can/will be doing later... and getting all primed thought wise and then when he starts it up - you are all relaxed and ready to go and enjoy it!
2006-07-01 00:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by KitKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so like when he walks in the door have a blind fold take him to the table chair and get your handcuffs or a few more bandana's and tie his arms up and legs.. then well slowly take off the cloths.. next be creative.. you can use diffrent smells, like limes and peppers and ect spices.. or you can get the wips or feather duster.. pull that hair and bite.. well the rest is just going down the hill lol.. later from a 44yrs old women who is hot.. and spicey
2006-06-30 16:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by sillyatheart3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could tell him about the problem and ask him to get you going with a quick phone call right before he pulls into the drive..... telling you about how much he wants you....... on and on?
2006-06-30 16:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by petluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the things that make you feel sexy before he gets home. Maybe wearing lingerie, or a baggy t-shirt without underwear, maybe it's eating your favorite chocolate or ice cream.......whatever "gets you".
2006-06-30 16:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Gregory B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell hin your sleeping and he can wait until you wake up and are in the mood.
2006-06-30 16:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch porn just before he's due to arrive home
2006-06-30 16:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he's in such a hurry...
2006-06-30 16:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch porn or something
2006-06-30 16:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋