My best friend has recently come out to her husband that she has been bisexual for a few year's and just recently wanted to act on it. At first she said he was kewl with the idea and now he is obbsessed with it.. She say's every where they go he is pointing out women for her to look at and then asking her "can we take her home" She worried that she may have opened a can of worms...Any advice for her would be helpful...I love her dearly and want to help as much as possible
2006-06-30 16:16:14 · 4 answers · asked by tinkermybell76531 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She just made what most guys imagine a reality and he is just excited. She should talk to him and explain that she wants to do it, but not with every woman out there. He should be patient.
2006-06-30 16:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by missee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? She just made him the happiest man on earth! And he gets to live every man's fantasy! LOL!!! I'm sorry, I just had to laugh...*oh dear*...He may settle down after awhile, it's just like getting a toy you've always wanted...he's just not done playing with it yet. Obviously he's okay with her announcement, and good for her to share this with him!! Let it run its course. And I don't mean to sound rude (it is clearly not my intention), and I know you love your friend, but what goes on behind closed doors is none of your business (even when she talks to you about it) and please don't judge her, or him, on this. If it makes you uncomfortable, let her know this and ask her to change the subject. If she needs to talk about it, try to listen without judgment and just let it go.
2006-07-01 01:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves her he will settle down,, he is just excited by the erotic side of it,, after he actually does it they will have to figure out what they truly want,, I assure you that it will affect their relationship.
2006-06-30 16:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes married, no matter what her orientation she is commited to him. if she does this it may possibly end in a tragic outcome and afterward she may regret it. divorce is not fun, broken hearts hurt bad.
2006-07-07 13:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by ccornewell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋