If my partner is cheeting on me.. what can i do to stop all this.. has anyone been able to change this situation and who did you do it..??? help i need to help a friend with advice.
2006-06-30 16:01:28 · 9 answers · asked by sillyatheart3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I must say by the looks of you the sex must be incredibly outstanding and downright wild which would make him a total idiot to take the chance of getting caught and losing what he should have known was the best he will ever have waiting at home we can only imagine he must of been thinking with his smaller brain and not realizing he is a total idiot and a wimp to let his little brain control his thinking brain that must have not been thinking of what he was losing
2006-07-01 07:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by unsure 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The way to stop it is don't be a part of it. You leave the relationship.
If you had a lump in your breast and new it was cancer you wouldn't let it stay there you'd get rid of it to keep it from spreading and killing you. The same is for a cheating partner.
Rules: Cheating is having additional relations that affect the relations between two partners that acknowledge a partnership.
Talking is the most use full advice to any couple, communication between the couple can keep a lot of un needed drama out of the relationship. And can open fantasy's of each other to share together.
2006-06-30 16:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by tc_an_american 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am divorced because my ex-husband cheated on me (had babies too) with other women. I tried to go back for my first son's sake but he started to cheat again once I got pregnant with our second son. Well, I left him and got a divorce and raised my sons alone (since my youngest was in diapers). I am still single and am now a grandmother but I will never trust a man again not to cheat. Now my sons are 33 and 37 years old. I would tell your friend that once a cheater, always a cheater. If they don't care enough about your feelings the first time, they will surely do it again and again. Tell her if she can, move on and live her life in peace. It is not easy but it is a lot better than living with a cheater. Thank you for your question.
2006-06-30 16:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by BrowBrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of a few people changing, but the old rule once a cheater always a cheater usually rings true.
2006-06-30 16:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by bethie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what i believe:
its ok to forgive a guy who lies
its ok to forgive a guy who hurts your feelings
its ok to forgive a guy who steals
but dont ever ever forgive a guy who cheats
once a cheater always a cheater ..... that means he was lying ,hurting ur feeling , breaking ur trust , being intimate with some1 else ...... thatz all the reasons y u shudnt 4give a guy who cheats
if he cheats hes not worth it
2006-06-30 16:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by icehot_pk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheeting?? do u mean cheating??? well I hav few friends who always cheat by saying something they not.....u know waht I do...I just listen but don't trust....
2006-06-30 16:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Clay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once, shame on you - Fool me twice, shame on me.
Hit the door running if that is his M.O. - he won't change and you will be forever wondering where he's been and what little disease he could be dragging home to you.
2006-06-30 16:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone who cheats on you? Let him continue what he's doing and you find someone you can trust.
2006-06-30 16:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are worried, lets talk and end this worry.
2006-06-30 16:09:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋