my parents are really stricked and they don't know i'm dating him. i'v e tryed the pregnancy tests like 3 times and evry time it says i am. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-30 15:52:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well the sooner you tell them the better it might be easier if you tell your mom first just say mom we need to talk and tell her in private that you are pregnant
GOOD LUCK
2006-06-30 15:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by babiigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy tests are not always true. Usually, they're on 98% or 99% positive. It may sound odd, but maybe you should, get one that is 99%, then if you almost 100% positive sit your parents down and tell them the truth. They would be even more mad if you lied to them. I know how you feel. I got pregnant when I was 14, my parents were all for a new baby too. I missed out of allot of school, and got sent to a school for pregnant teenagers. I hope ever goes really well with telling your parents about the whole thing. If they get really mad at you, you really can't do anything about it. Its over and done. and you cant change time. Good luck.
2006-06-30 18:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Karista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin had this same situation. I know this sux but either way you wil freak out your parents. Go up to your mom and dad and say "Im really sorry but i am pregnant. I have this boyfriend that you dont know and it just happened. im sorry and i regret it". It sounds easy but your parents may cry or scream for a couple weeks but they will get over it and will help support you. This is gonna be somthing that ruins your life. Try to keep going to school and go to college because an education will set you free.
Go to planned parenthood becasue they have advice and all types of classes so you can get baby clothes, diapers, bottles, ect.
Well good luck and i hope i helped. Also dont be to surprised if your bf says "ill always be there for you and the baby" and then he forgets about you two.
2006-06-30 17:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by summer luvver :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just found out that I am pregnant also, but I am very happy, married, and 30 years old...
But when I was 18 I got pregnant and had an abortion, and have no regrets about it. I was away from home, so I didn't tell my parents, although I am sure they would have supported me in whatever my decision was. Your parents WILL freak out, but you have to tell them as you are very young to handle it alone. They will make sure you see a good doctor. If you find it easier try to talk only to your mother first.
- on my way for the first child...
2006-07-03 02:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, didn't you get yourself in quite a situation that became a huge mistake.
Well, I don't mean to be negative so I'll go ahead and say it. How dumb are you to do that and "it" extremly early? How did you even know how to do it anyway?
Let's see... start off with your mom in private and ask her if she'll be by your side no matter what happens. Then easy in into the topic after you say it was really really stupid of you to do such a thing since you're still a "baby" yourself. Believe me, to her you still are. You haven't even been through high school yet. And then tell her, if you're not sure about keeping it. Tell her you'll put it up for adoption since it was a big mistake.
2006-06-30 16:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by in2theSky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honey, it sounds like you have got yourself in a bind. Of course your parents are going to freak, who wouldn't. Talk to your mom, she will be the easiest probably. Don't buy anymore tests.It is a waste of money. You need to tell before you start show and getting morning sickness anad all that stuff that come along with it. You also need to be sure that you are safe in physical activity. You will need to tell your health and wellness teacher at school that you will be unable to particiapte for personal reasons.Don't drop out of school honey. It will be better for you and the child to tough it out. Don't be ashamed and never treat the baby like a mistake. You really should keep the baby. You don't want them to think that their own mother gave them up. Go talk to a preacher or something. I hope taht your parents and family take it well. Have you told the baby's father?
Good luck and if you ever need someone to talk to, I am here. I am praying for you.
2006-06-30 16:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by vmbbfreak06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you need to do is talk to the father and see if he is going to be around or not.. Then you can go to your parents and tell them that you made a mistake and the condom broke.. do not tell them it was un protected... tell them that the condom broke and you are pregnant.. that the father is planning on helping ( or he is not planning to help ) and what do they want you to do.. do you want me to put the baby for adoption.? do you want to send me away and start crying.. they will see how much you are hurting and will start sorting everything out.
When i was in school this young lady was 12 and sooner or later we all knew what was going on and right after she started showing her parents sent her away with a aunt out of state.. well when she ended up coming back after she was 18 i meet up with her when i was working at the diner and she was one of my customers.. i looked and realized it was her.. well we went to talking and it turnout that not only did she give that baby up for adoption she had 2 more after that and gave them up also.. and was pregnant again!.... do not be like this girl.. you already got the shock of your life.. please do not go screwing around anymore til you are old enough to take response ability for your actions. no matter what your parents say or do. time will ease the pain that they will have and the anger over your actions.. no one wants to see there children screw up there lives... and i know first hand cuz my step son is 13 and is a daddy now.. but he was with a 19 year old woman it is a little diffrent but still the same because there he is 13 and has to take care of a baby that woman that he was with which one one even knew about... is old enough but she is facing criminal charges and once she goes to jail the baby will fall in the responsability of the grandparents.. which is problly what will happen with you if your parents decide to keep the baby. I tell you what.. go tell your parents and get it out of the way because you holding it all inside is bad for you and the baby.. once you tell them please e mail me and i will talk to you. i have seen and delt with it and i can imagine what you are feeling... just click on my name and contact me and give me your e mail and i will talk to you. i do not want to put to much info in this..
2006-06-30 17:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see your Pastor of your church 1st and explain what happened then ask that he or she is present at your home when you tell your folks who will most likely "freak" out.. you are 13 yrs old and in their book , too young to have a baby.. ..
your life will be on hold if you choose to keep the baby.. no going out or being with your friends..decide what you plan to do with your child now and if you need a friend.. you can always ask me for advice.. i will try to help you out..
and 3 tests that show you are positive you dont need to test again.. you can also ask a friends mom to come over to be there should your mom and dad explode..
good luck
2006-06-30 16:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by workingmomw4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to tell them with out them freaking. Hopefully they will stand by you through it all. Tell them quick and get it over with, the facts aren't going to change and you'll just be worrying about it. Also don't waste your money on any more tests, 3 positives are a yes!
2006-06-30 15:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest there isn't really a good way to tell your parents..in my opinion 13 year olds shouldn't even be having sex. But that isn't the point. Since you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to be an adult(or at least act like on) and sit down and tell your parents about this, and hopefully figure out a solution..
Good luck.
2006-06-30 15:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're going to freak out no matter what. Just break it to them gently (maybe write them a letter or give them a card)and hope for the best. I personally would write them a letter - that way you can get everything you want to say out and they can listen without interrupting you. It will give you time to decide what you want to do - adoption or raise the baby yourself.
Congratulations. :) (I say that because babies are wonderful)
Good luck with telling your parents. I hope things go okay. *hugs*
2006-06-30 17:07:28 · answer #11 · answered by heaven25star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋