k so my mom always seemed to like my cuzs better then me, she has always treated them better then me...she thinks that i would actually waste my time hiding her things.....She gets mad @ me if someone from school calls or i call them..lately its been like every little thing i do annoys her for some reason....i cant stay in the same room with her without her yellign @ me for something....To her im not a good muslim, i dont pray enough, i have way to many jobs, blha blh blha.....i am just so tired of it...am i wrong is ma mom wrong? am i doin some thing wrong? i do my chores...actually i do all the chores almost......any help
2006-06-30 15:41:38 · 13 answers · asked by Love Exists? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Are u in the teenage transition phase? My mom hates me and it bdoesn't bother me anymore. Your parents love you but they they will hate everything you do.....i know, sounds complicated but it's true. Are u desi by any chance? Desi parents are like that. Wanna talk more about this, then hit me up.
2006-06-30 15:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by funkymonkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well First off Your mom expects more out of you than your cousin. Thats probably why you feel that way because she harder on you.If she didn't love you she wouldn't care what you did. So I can tell by what you write she does love you. Its hard to be a teenager as you're not totally grown up yet but feel like you don't get the proper freedoms. But your mom just worry about you and where you're at in your life. Have you try to just have a friendly conversation with her. get to know her without asking her for something.Let her know who you are where you draw the lines. I guarantee it'll make her feel better and she trust you more and be less restrictive I was watching a show one time and they told their children you want more privacy and more choices then start acting more maturely. Then she may feel a bit better about letting go a little bit.
2006-06-30 22:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i feel you my mom is almost the same way doesn't like my friends,criticizes what i do .what i usually do is try to stay away from her as much as i can and participate in whatever is around to stay even more apart.But in any case some to the point in time where you tell her all you feel with out arguing and how she makes you feel,what she does to you that makes you think that she doesn't love you enough and explain how you thinks she treats your cousins better then you.If that don't work get her head checked.my mom had to do that and It turned out she had bipolar and depression issues(hope i helped you).
2006-06-30 22:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by isaac s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it with her. Ask someone to talk to her and let her know how you feel. Ask your dad if there is something going on in her life. Maybe she got fired or something. She may be going through a stage in her life that she feels unaccomplished. Or maybe just too stressed out or tired and needs to blame on someone and hurt them.
What i would do if i were you is those things. Just make sure you let her know some how.
Good Luck
2006-06-30 22:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are old enough to move out I would do that and hopefully your relationship will improve with you mom. My mom and I have only grown closer and closer since I have graduated and moved out-11 years ago. If you cannot do this, have you tried talking to your mom and told her how she makes you feel? That would be the first thing I tried regardless. Good luck to you and best wishes.
2006-06-30 22:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mystyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mother who acts like that towards her child may have something wrong with her emotionally. Maybe she doesn't know how to deal with it. Maybe she just isn't a good parent. It's not your fault, it's nothing that you did. Try talking to her. Tell her how you feel.
2006-06-30 22:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have someone in the family you can talk to you need to vent all of this to an adult you trust. And you should see you councelor at school they can help you if you are wrong they can give you ideas on how to change and if your Mom is way out of line and its abuse they can help you with that.If it is on the line of abuse please find an adult to help you out of this.
2006-06-30 22:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by g-day mate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way sometimes i think thats just how mom are soposed to be caseu i swere my mom would reather help out my brother way more than me!!
2006-06-30 22:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by roaminggnome6963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... make your cousins look really bad.
Note: also, its not YOUR fault.. Maybe she just doesn't like having kids.
2006-06-30 22:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you know God loves you and you love yourself I wouldn't worry about it too much you're probably not doing anything wrong
2006-06-30 22:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by buttah_pecan_rican1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋