I'm kind of in love with my younger sister's guy friend, he is a lot older than her, but about my age. I've heard lots of nice things about him, and coincidentally he knows my older brother, he's been friend with my brother for about 4 years. What should i do? Once again, no mean answers PLEASE.
2006-06-30 15:33:06 · 11 answers · asked by Tostie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should make sure that there are no romantic feelings towards him on your sisters end before you proceed. If Ok with your sister have her or your brother introduce you and all of you hang out. See what happens from there.
2006-06-30 15:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by cloud9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love means different things to different people. I believe the term is tossed around in too many ways, to the point where it almost has no meaning anymore. I prefer to use "intimacy" or "attachment."
There are biological aspects of attraction and passion that are an important part of intimacy. These form very potent sources of fuel for a relationship, and I think they can be very important if they also include a certain amount of consistent communication and emotional process. Other important ingredients include mutuality in the relationship, respect for the person, and empathy for whom they are and what their needs are.
Simpler signs are merely that this is somebody with whom you feel comfortable and enjoy spending time. This should be somebody you look forward to sharing an important experience with, and without that person, that experience would not be as special. Finally, you should feel that your life is fundamentally enhanced by having this person with you and when this person is not with you, you lose something meaningful.
2006-06-30 22:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have talked to him, right? You stated "someone u've not seen". Yet your family seems to know this guy. There's nothing wrong with having a thing for your sister's friend, as long as she's not telling you how she loves him. I've liked a number of my sister's friends (female). I didn't care what age they were. She's 11 months older than me. Talk to him one day, ask him to come with you for something, and take him out to eat or to a movie. Believe me, he'll figure it out. Of course, I'm a male. Still, do what I suggest. When you score, let us know.
2006-06-30 22:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by fingerssfv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow can I relate to this... I met my (now) husband while he was in Korea and I was in SC... We were set up by a mutual freind who said 'he's single/shes single maybe you should talk to him/her.." and through talking on the phone all night, sending pictures back and forth, emails.. etc.... we fell in love... half way accross the globe.. We began talking in Feb of 05, he came to SC April 14th, 2005 ( I met him at the airport) and we were married December 9th and had our son that January. You never know where love will be until its found, and in the most impossible places. So dream big, its always possible!! Good luck!
2006-06-30 22:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of good peoples living in world..so will u be in love with each n every good person?...i dont think u can be in love with someone u never met..uhh yeh well u should meet him and dont do much things but meet him to judge him as if he is fit for you.
2006-06-30 22:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by VaMpY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay honestly, I think anything is possible. If you love this guy and you really think that you do then you can tell him and see of you all can meet in private. your sis does not have to know. But if you think that it will not lead to anything then I think that you should leave it alone. let me know your feed back. my im is tbchelle God Bless.
2006-06-30 22:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by tbchelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can be in love with someone you've never met... I think you're just in love with the Idea of him.. you should meet him... and hang out for a bit.. before you decied ... =D
2006-06-30 22:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by La_La_Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep asking about this guy to your sister,just maybe she'll fix you up with this guy
2006-06-30 23:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with my husband before I met him.
2006-06-30 22:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if something sounds good of course!!! ask your sister first though....
2006-06-30 22:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋