2006-06-30 15:17:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
hey whats the name of you site? anyways if you feel that bad about having it you should shut it down or sell it. and lies never ever help anything you should tell your girlfriend the truth
2006-06-30 15:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by bigbob33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you posting yourself on the site or are you posting others?
If it's just yourself, there shouldn't be a reason to feel guilty unless you feel like you're cheating on your girlfriend.
If it's cyber that you're doing at your site though, I can understand why you'd feel guilty and felt perhaps like you were cheating on her in some way. If it's just pictures though..then it wouldn't be considered cheating if it was just alone.
Maybe try talking to her about it? You just have to find the right time to do it.
Also, you have to remember what you post on the internet STAYS on the internet for many years to come. If you decide to get a job that's not on the internet how do you know one of your site clients isn't a future employeer. Being recognized for that alone may or may not effect you being hired.
One can't argue the money making factor. People that do porn sites usually make more than people who go out and work.
If you do talk to your girlfriend about it, just be prepaired to stop the site if she says she's uncomfortable with it. If you ask her opinion, be prepared to listen. If you do ask her, chances are she'll expect you to close it IF she feels uncomfortable with it.
There's also a good chance that she sees it as "just a job" You never know till you ask.
2006-06-30 22:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about what you're doing. 2 out 5 internet users go to pornographic websites at least once a day neway, and this includes innocent kids. once they start they can't stop. u urself might have a porn addiction, and that might be the reason why u can't quit it. do what's right and take down the site.
2006-06-30 22:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by somepaliguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the porn good porn that isn't hateful and sends good healthy messages. There is nothing wrong with good healthy people having good healthy sex. There IS something wrong with it if it is hateful toward women or anyone. That would be my position on it. I would work for or make a site that was not hateful, I would not do one that was hateful.
2006-06-30 22:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by agropelter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen man, as long as you understand that women are not sexual objects, its OK to own a porn site. Just remember not to be sexist.
2006-06-30 22:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by khaoticwarchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the site and run. Better yet, sell it and find a new job. It's the only way to banish your guilt.
2006-06-30 22:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude handle your business. Everyone does bad things every day but your are profiting from and its not all that bad. And who cares what your girlfriends thinks, shes your girlfriend not your wife. And i bet shes not complaining when you take her out and you are paying.
2006-06-30 22:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jason E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean and turn the money over to charity.
2006-06-30 22:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill buy it fromn you for $50, that will make both of us feel better, LOL
2006-06-30 22:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by bmwdriver11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her and see what she says. Tell her the pros and cons and see how she feels. She will probaby be pissed you lied, but maybe she'll understand. good luck
2006-06-30 22:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋