i have a friend who says she will call me and we can get toghther but she never does she even wrote in my year book I WILL CALL YOU IN THE SUMMER but she hasen't . it kind of bothers me what should i do
2006-06-30 14:53:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give her a call! See what's up
2006-06-30 14:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Just Breathe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phone works two ways, so pick up the phone and call her instead. Some people have good intentions, but never get around to doing what they want or need to do, as life tends to get in the way. She may be one of these people. On the other hand, she may not even think about calling. One sure way to know for sure is to call her, and you can say you were wondering if everything was okay since you had not heard from her in awhile. Then ask if she wants to go shopping or whatever. Don't get upset, when you call - talk calmly. Good luck!
2006-06-30 21:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a friend, she is an acquaintance and you should look for an other friend. A friend is what goes thru thick and thin with you. A friend is listening to you , when you in need. A friend gives you a call every now and then, to check if you o.k. A friend is just dropping in and saying "Hi " and last a friend never forgets a b-day. So think about it, if you want to call her still friend? And if you still want to keep her around.
2006-06-30 22:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by diamantenkitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone writes that in yearbooks, even when they don't necessarily mean it, or have good intentions and then just get really busy. don't waste your time on friends that you have to "chase" to hang out with, you deserve better. i'm not going to tell you that she's not your friend, but she's not really very good at BEING a friend. it may be that she does this to everyone, so don't feel like its you. find some people with similar interests and move on. i wouldn't say don't talk to her, but she sounds kind of flaky so don't put so much into what she does with you or thinks of you.
2006-06-30 21:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Some Lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some Friends are Just school friends, no matter what you do. It's just that way sometimes. I'm sure that she wants to but she has other outside school friends that are closer to her than you. Nothing personal but everyone has friends like that. Don't let it bother you, she doesn't mean to hurt you. Just be her friend when school starts up.
2006-06-30 22:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by tm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be brutally honest...there is not much you can do with your friendship unless make it one sided....things come and go...Do you notice your parents dont have any childhood friends around and calling them regularly....as you mature you will find that friends will come and go each helping you along your journey through life.
2006-06-30 21:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by scottwatras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably aren't even thinking about it. Give them a call and hang out with them and bring it up. There is either a reason or they don't want to talk to you, so you might want to find out.
2006-06-30 21:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by sexylilgirl_idealmgf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get busy. maybe she is thinking the same thing. WHY HAVEN'T YOU CALLED? She probably is either really busy, or thinks you don't like her because you never called.
2006-06-30 21:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Truth be Told 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly speaking.. if she isn't too busy to even call u for a sec.. you are not a friend of hers... but the best thing you can do is go on with your life and to be a friend to everybody.. wait for them to approach you... life is too short... look around, the best for your you is all around you just need to look at it and appreciate friends you got around.
2006-06-30 22:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not worry about it. That's the kind of stuff that is written in year books.
2006-06-30 21:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by Fred G. Sanford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋