I have a serious problem guys,my bf and me wants to have a baby.I can't have 1 though,what should i do?

Question

I was born with a health problem that prevents me from having kids.

Answer 1

Adopt a child as soon as its born im so so sorry about your health problem

Answer 2

First of all, make sure he knows you can't conceive. Then, look into alternative methods. Can you just not conceive, or can you not carry a child? Maybe you could be inseminated somehow, or maybe you could find someone willing to carry the child for you, there is also adoption. There have been so many medical advances these days, that the possibilities are virtually endless. Well, whatever you decide I wish you luck, and hope it all works out for you. OH yeah, and before you have a baby together, make him your husband, not your boyfriend, because if that can't happen you shouldn't even be thinking about having babies.

Answer 3

Adopting is good because your giving a child a good home,In Vitro Fertilization helps you have a child that has either your DNA or your partner's but there are a high percentage of multiple births with this option and with surrogate mother's it's very similar than with In Vitro but the surrogate can also donate the eggs herself if you want to or you can have her implanted with an embryo composed of an egg you get from an egg bank and your partner's sperm.Either of the alternatives can be costly but they vary.I suggest you use the net to do some research on this.

Answer 4

In all honesty, if he loves you-- really deeply honestly-- loves you, then you should be able to tell him and he understand. But you know modern medicine is making things happen everyday, so you might consider getting a medical update. If he isn't willing to work with you and maybe consider adoption someday, then you have to ask yourself if this guy is right for you. I would have to know your health problem I guess to tell you anything different...

Answer 5

simple if you can ovulate that means that you can go to a fetility clinic and have some of your eggs fertilized and then enplant them in a serget(a person carrying a child for a person who is unable to have or carry their own child(this is a woman).)but make sure that that person is some one that you trust and/or know or both.you can also consider adopting.
p.s. if this man really loves you he shouldn,t pressue you he should understand your condition besides having a baby changes everything i think that you two should consider marriage before having a child together

Answer 6

its ok, some people cant give birth for the same reasons. but its no fair if you mislead him and not tell him (not accusing u juss saying if u do than its jacked up.) you should tell him, and work it out. if you want children, then make a child happy, and adopt one. every child deserves a home. but be cautions, if you want more than 1,then dont just look at the babies. its not fair and it makes the other children soory for themselve, coz they think their too old. but adopt one,if you both want one, then you should...:):)

Answer 7

If u don't want to have a baby just tell him u don't want to have a baby and u 2 will figure it out and just take some pills in case u don't wanna have a baby well good luck with the baby i wish u lots of luck!!

Answer 8

tell him, if he dumps you then he never really loved you only a real man would stay with someone as special as you! i duno how old you are but im only 18 but when your older and have a home etc. you can adopt or foster! good luck! if it dont work out, then oh well- you are better than that and deserve better hunn!

Answer 9

Adopt! There are SO MANY incredible kids waiting for parents. Besides, it doesn't matter if the child isn't your biological offspring. You don't love your kids because of their DNA, you just love them because they are your kids.

Answer 10

Have you looked in to adopting although it may cost to much there are adoption agency's that can help you where you live