So I originally broke up with my boyfriend which later we found out was a complete misunderstanding. But after being broken up for two weeks he decided that he wanted to remain single. I think partially because he realized that we could remain friends and he could go have sex with whomever he pleases. It hurts me to hear about him going out, and him being busy all the time, but I don't know how to STOP talking to him. I've tried, but nothing seems to help and when I stopped, he kept calling and emailing me. How do I fix this because I still hurt inside, and he's moved on.
2006-06-30 13:41:15 · 14 answers · asked by MzJdeezy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
P.S. If he wanted me I think I would take him back. :-( That's how pathetic I am. Even though when I THINK about ACTUALLY getting back with him, I get irritated? Which is somewhat confusing.
2006-06-30 13:53:00 · update #1
move on too,go out with your friends ,try to be away from him for awhile ,even if you miss him dont call him and dont answer his calles or e-mail...and if you want da better way to move on turn off your phone and dont check your mails for about 4 or 5 days
2006-06-30 13:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. This is a real tough one. Alot of emotions are running very high with you now, and as you say, he's moved on. I understand when you say you want to talk with him, and then later you're angry with him when thinking about taking him back. Alot of emotions, and this is why it's so difficult to know what to do.
All I can tell you, is that you'll make it thru this, and it'll be alright. Sometimes we have to take a few steps backward to take a step forward, so don't be too hard on yourself. You will be confused, angry,hurt and anxious at times, but it will pass.
This is all part of a process and you will learn thru this what you want in a guy and what you don't want, so it will be used for the good. That may seem hard to understand right now, but you'll learn some things from this, that you couldn't have learned any other way, and it will be a positive thing. Hold your head up high and go girl!
2006-06-30 14:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on too. Being friends is fine as long as thats understood w/ the 2 of u. Being friends w/ an ex is great! There are few of my ex's that im not friends with. Let him know that it hurts to hear about the new girl in his life but u do want to be friends. Also let him know that if he wants to talk w/ u, it has to be a generic talk ... no new relationships allowed!! in the conversations!! unless u find that both are ok w/ talking about it. best of luck!!
2006-06-30 13:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by billysgirls3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should cut out the contact with him for now. He wants you back and that's why he kept calling and emailing you. Its all about time. If you let go of him, then tell him that he shouldn't bother you anymore and have him move on.
2006-06-30 13:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by beltimore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was once EXACTLY the identical with me and nonetheless is to an quantity we're nonetheless near however he does annoy me every now and then. I suppose you must reduce all touch with him till he accepts that its over or he will get it into his head that dedication is wanted for you and him to make a move of the connection
2016-08-20 10:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by ohrmund 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, boo. There's a million fish in the sea. Get that fishing rod out and go for yours. This is your life, your world. The rest of us are just actors doing bit parts. You are the STAR. Don't find yourself waiting for a bus that's late. Your prince in shinning armour aint him. Cause when it's right, it works like clock work, baby. Don't let this jerk pull puppet strings on you. You aint no pinata. You are a beautiful dove. Let him watch you...fly away.
2006-06-30 13:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Yahoo answer dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was precisely the identical with me and still is to an extent we're still close but he does annoy me from time to time. I suppose you will have to reduce all contact with him except he accepts that its over or he gets it into his head that commitment is required for you and him to make a go of the connection
2016-08-08 23:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by dufresne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and done this and you will just keep the pain going if you continue to play his game. He only wants you when you are not interested in him. So...don't be available and enjoy the attention he gives you but DO NOT call him...just send little messages like smiley faces and noncommittal responses that are clever and funny. See what happens...good luck!
2006-06-30 13:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to put you on the back burner and when he realizes that you are on your way to getting over him, he gets you back wrapped around that finger of his. You are just going to have to tell him that you can't talk to him any more that you are trying to move on like he did. If he can't support that like a normal friend would he was just trying to get back at you for breaking up with him. Sweet heart your going to have to just ignore him.
2006-06-30 13:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in time that will all go away .It seem that you are very young .when you are young .you should live life.Right now your boy friend is in charge. he has control.you need to just have some fun.If he wants too go let him there are a lot of men who would want to be with you.
2006-06-30 13:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by bigdaddy e love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋