I've been acting like a little cry baby because my girl has had a better sex life than me in high school. I keep picturing her with other people I haven't even met. I know, that's domb. Ofcourse, I just found out yesterday, that she had sex with two guys (who I do know and can picture them with my girl vividly) a month after we became a couple about 3 years ago. Men are not gonna find a girl who hasn't slept with other guys. So is it really so great having a woman who has ONLY been with one man. I should probably just grow up and Love my woman for who she is now, right?
2006-06-30 13:30:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are far better off being with a woman who has already experinced her wild side. I started dating my (soon to be ex) wife when she was 15 and we were in high school. I was the only one she was ever with. It was a great feeling up until about 2 months ago when she started running around with a man from work and told me she did not love me any more. After some counseling I found out that since she did not get to experience the single life and has only known me she felt as though she missed out on something. So after 12 years together, a new home, great careers, and a beautiful daughter I am left with nothing but a broken heart. I know the visions you are talking about (I have them about every couple of minutes) but you just have to let it slide, quit looking back, and take pride in the fact that after knowing other men she chose YOU. Good luck.
2006-06-30 14:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Scott B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Here's the deal, dude: If a girl, by the age of 25 or so has had 1-2 partners, you can be guranteed that she will want some form of long-term commitment (i.e.: marriage or LTR) before she sleeps with you. You can also expect the frequency of sex to be much less. If a girl has had 3-7 partners, you can expect sex (not necessiarly sooner, or without an LTR), more frequently than with the 1-2 chick. If your girl has had 10-56+ partners, you can get it whenever you want, and sometimes when you don't and it'll be great, but she will most likely be a head case, and was most likely molested as a child. I.E. Grow up. :)
2006-06-30 13:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should grow up but I know where you are coming from. Think of it this way, if she had only you she might later on wonder what it would be like with another guy. I know some people like this and they did not last. consider yourself lucky. Try not to think of the other guys though, I do that some times and it drives me nuts and I get an attitude over nothing. Enjoy what you have, it is good to ***** about it sometime too.
2006-06-30 13:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't really help how you feel. Just try to deal with it. You have been together 3 years now! Are you feeling insecure about how you are in the bed compared with her past lovers? If so, just talk to her. Find out if there are some areas you can improve on. Communication is always the key. Good luck.
2006-06-30 13:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by candy0813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the past and concentrate on the future. If you continously worry over this, it will drive you insane. She cannot un-do what has happened in the past no more than you can. Love her for what she is to you now.. in the present. The time you spend worrying over this past situation, that you cannot change or control is time wasted not being with her. Good Luck!
2006-06-30 14:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love her for who she is. I'm sure she thought that the other guys she had would work out for her, but they didn't . So you got lucky and got her instead. If she is a good girl, treats you great, loves you and is faithful to you,,,,HOLD ON TO HER!!! Don't punish her for things she did before she met you. You will regret it.
2006-06-30 13:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH GET OVER IT.. IF U LOVE HER.. 4GET HER PAST... YA KNOW SHE CAN'T GO BACK N UNDO THOSE THINGS.. ASK HER WHAT YOU CAN DO TO SATISFY HER.. IT HELPS ALOT..
BTW, YOU ALWAYS TEST DRIVE B4 U BUY A CAR.. :)
BE HAPPY ...
2006-06-30 13:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, love her for herself now. dont worry about her past.
2006-06-30 14:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she told me she is still sleeping with other guys behimd your back
2006-06-30 13:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by jerry k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if it's good.. who cares.
2006-06-30 13:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋