Is it okay to have sex with my neighbor since I have a hunch that my wife already did?
2006-06-30 13:18:44 · 38 answers · asked by royal_fryer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmm....sounds interesting.....hopefully that she's in to you......or you can be in for a rude awakening. Get you a 3 some going and take plenty of pics.....LOL Good luck.
2006-06-30 13:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 8⤋
Your wife had sex with the hot neighbor? So your OK with that? Do you think the hot neighbor wants to have sex with you? You might check to see if your neighbor is still in town, cause chances are, she be with the wife.
2006-06-30 13:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by theonesuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! It is not OK for you to hurt another person in order to satisfy your own needs. When people get the urge to cheat it is usually a sign that things arent quite right in their relationship. That doesnt mean you dont love your girlfriend, but clearly something is missing for you. Your choices are really easy: figure out what is missing and talk to your girlfriend about it or end the relationship and move on. In talking to her about your feelings, expect her to feel a little hurt, she may even decide that she doesn't want to stick around while you sort it all out, but that is the chance you take when you express unhappiness in a relationship.
2006-06-30 13:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by stina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself how you will explain it to your wife. She will probably find out anyway. Its best if you tell her. If you have considered these things, and are willig to tell her when she gets back, whether she did it already or not, and you can live with yourself after you tell her then go ahead. Consider it all carefully first. Its the sort of thing you may still be thinking about 50 years later while staring into a fire.
2006-06-30 13:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a free country, do what you want.
Just don't whine when your wife finds out and boots you out. A hunch doesn't mean a thing.................Are you sure you didn't just try to convince yourself of that so you'd have an excuse?
2006-06-30 13:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hunch? what if your hunch is wrong and why are you even married if you don't intend to uphold the contract with God and your spouse?
2006-06-30 13:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Zacko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you have to live with your own conscience, or the lack of it.
I personally find your question disgusting, although if you are one of those young 14,15,16, or 17 year old married guy's who had to get there parents permission, then I suggest that you ask your mommy, or your daddy, and I apologies for my rudeness, as with respect to your age then I can understand your confusion.
2006-06-30 13:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Thoughtfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass on this deal as it is just too close to home and you will get busted. Hunches don't count.
2006-06-30 13:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally and ethically, no, it's not okay, pretty sure you're married!I wouldn't doubt if you're wife and neighbor were setting you up! Play with fire, get burned!
2006-06-30 13:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by wondering in michigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wann abreak your life and feel bad for alonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng time then its up to you go,but i gotta tell you this ,your wife will know one day and she'll hate you and kick you out or leave you ,and you'll be sorry for what you did ,and eveybody will lok at you as a cheater,and no one will love you anymore,,if your sooooooooooooo hot take abath ;)
2006-06-30 13:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just because she MAY have done wrong, doesnt make it right for you to do wrong. Be true to your vows, a clear conscience is a good thing. Hope this helps and best of luck....Kristy C.
2006-06-30 13:22:15 · answer #11 · answered by kristycordeaux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋