I always call my boyfriend and he answers but he never once called me and mostly when we talk on the phone he talks about sex or anything that contain sex in it at first I didnt want to have sex . he did it so much that now its making me want to have sex and I cant do anything about it I broke up with him 2 times and told him lets be friends and he said ok then one day he told me that he had a girlfriend and said that he had his first kiss from her,calls her and I spoke to her and he gave her a MP3 player then he got the nerve to ask me to be his girlfriend again he treats her way better than he use to treat me What should I do
2006-06-30 13:15:01 · 20 answers · asked by T_claire 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Im 13 years old
2006-06-30 14:34:15 · update #1
MOVE ON. Find someone who'll care about you, respect your opinions, not use you, who'll make you wholeheartedly happy. Obviously, if he treated her well, and you not very well, then he didn't care about you that much. Don't be a chaser. Be a person.
2006-06-30 13:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he treats his old girl better than you- move on. There are plenty of guys out there that will treat you with the respect that you deserve. If he is talking to you constantly about sex and pressuring you to have a sexual relationship when you don't want one- then he isn't a good guy and he doesn't care about you- no matter what he says. You can do better.
2006-06-30 20:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by LittleBlackDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS IMPORTANT to have a great relationship with your bf-a true one! One that isn't just about having sex! DONT git back together with him. Find somebody else. Somebody who REALLY loves you for who you are and that you & him have lots of things in common. Somebody who you knows that will call u bak, or will help u with yur homework, or will spend time with u. Not some pervert who is extremely obsessed with sex and wants to have that with u, and then leave u.
By the way, about having sex before your married, what does the Bible say about this? HEBREWS 13:4-"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." Hope this helps kan help u.
2006-07-06 20:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by christianTX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his to f*ck off!!! You don't need a guy who tries to pressure you into sex or talks about sex all the time, and then finds a new gf who he treats better and then wants to get back with you. He needs to grow up. Move on to someone who deserves you!
2006-06-30 20:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him, the perfect guy is out there for you, don't give into this one, I'm sure your young and guys like virgins so make them all want you, then you have a choice, instead of the guy choosing you, and if you had to break up with him twice then that's a sign that he's controlling and that could get dangerous, stay away from him, or else he'll get the most precious thing you have to offer and more, save it for the who loves you and is willing to Wait for you
2006-06-30 20:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u 12?
2006-06-30 21:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by kayla_ann_simmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first off... do you want to spend the rest of your life with a guy who bosses you around... trust me no you don't. you need to tell him no way am i going to be with you again you are pressuring me or what i see as pressuring me into having sex with you and that is not acceptable behavior to me and i wont date you ,,, and let it be that way trust me you re better off without him
2006-06-30 22:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by lkng4lv14892@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is learning how to treat his girlfriends now. Just don't do anything dumb like having sex with him.
2006-07-06 14:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothin bazaar about it girl, he's a typical teenage boy, just be yourself, you sound pretty smart, smart enough not to fall for his tricks! It's all a game to him. So either you can get played, or, you can get your butt in the game and play it your way !!
2006-07-02 18:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not wroth it break off with him sex is not everything. He should respect you if you are not ready. As I see it he only gave the other person something because she slept with him sounds like a cheap hooker to me
2006-06-30 20:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Darlene M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋