what do you do if you are 13 and pregnant?

Answer 1

You should tell your mom no matter how scared you are. At first she will be mad, and then she will be sad, but ultimatly she loves you and will be there to support you. So go ahead and let her know.

Answer 2

well first off what the hell were you doing having sex in the first place? Arent you in like 6th or 7th grade? I mean come on sweety how you gonna take care of a baby and you aint even old enough to have a job? You definetly aint even finish H.S. You have to tell your parents. So you and your parents can sit down and decide what yall are going to do. You have options like abortion and adoption or you can choose to keep this baby. But whatever decision you and your parents decided to make make sure that its what you know is right for you and what you want and dont forget about whats right for the child. Keep in mind you are still young. Tell your parents ASAP the sooner the better and dont listen to none of these assholes on here when they start telling you what you need to do as far as that baby. Remember those are opinions and not advice and at the end of the day this is your choice, your decision, and your life. In the mean time stop having sex and make sure you get checked out because you can get sexualy transmitted diseases from having unprotected sex as well as HIV which is the viruse that causes aids. Dont be stupid this is your life boo cherish it!

Answer 3

well definately you have to talk and tell your parents,yeah they'll get mad,but then again who wouldn't?but you're their daughter they are sure to help you.you should go and consult a doctor,because 13 is really young and there might be risks having a baby a this age,but i'm not really sure so go see a doctor.if it's safe then have the baby because its just an innocent child,and honestly i don't believe abortion is the best solution to any probelm unless for health reasons.get your parents and ask them whether they can help you raise the child while you finish school and go to college to get a better life.your family the baby's father family need to talk and find a solution.if you think you're too young and not ready to be a mom then maybe adoption is the last solution.find a good family and make sure you still can be part of the child's life because you might not think about now,but few years from now,you are sure to wonder what your child is like and have plety of 'what if' question.

Answer 4

Wow honey. I feel for you. No more sex for awhile. It's not natural for a 13 year old girl to being having sex anyway. See a counselor for your self esteem issues. Whatever you do, you shouldn't have an abortion. Trust me. I got pregnant when I was 17, and had one. You will regret it forever. You need to make sure you will a lot of family support if you decide to keep this child. Otherwise, adoption is your best bet. And please, learn from you mistakes.

Answer 5

First of all, tell your parents as hard as it may be, email me if you wanna go into more detail on how to go about telling them. Next please don't abort the baby UNLESS medically advised, my cousin had her 1st baby at 14 she was 13 when she got pregnant, she now is 25 years old and he 3 beautiful children, she stuck it out and didn't give up on life and her children, there are also adoption, people who are not as fortunate as you to be able to have children, they will pay you for your medical cost and Lot's of other things to bring a healthy baby into the world for them to care for after you give birth, consider all options and if you wanna talk more email me at [e-mail]. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers

Answer 6

Sweetie, talk with your parents and listen to your heart. Dont let anyone make the decision for you. I mean just think about it, they didnt make the decision for you to have sex so dont let it be up to them to them you whats right/wrong for your child. You're young, honestly your still a child yourself with alot of growing up to do. You have the whole world in front of you. I know someone thats really close to me, she found out she was pregnant 8 days before her 13th b-day. Not once did she think of giving her child up or having an abortion. She had a the baby, he was a healthy 5lbs. She stuck it out even though she had no one in her corner but her mother, she finished school and went to college. The baby's father, said he wasnt ready to be a father he was too young. Yeah well he wasnt to young to climb on top of her and fertilize an egg. She raised her son by herself and he had everything any child could ever want- LOVE. She went to college to become a pharmacist and succeeded. She had one other child when she turned 18. Now her son is 18 and his planning to go to college to be a computer engineer and her daughter is 12. She had hard times but not one day in her life does she regret what happened and the things she did. She loves her children. Yeah she was young when she had her first one but that never stopped her. She had her mother and now her kids have her. Family and friends are your most support, whether they agree with your decision or not. I wish you the best of luck and I'll keep you in my prayer!!

Answer 7

well ive been there and it is not easy.if you are confused as what to do, dont let anyone make this decision for you you might regret it.think it through as hard as you can.if you want to have it or not is your choice.not anyone elses.follow your heart if you have a parent or counselor someone that will understand talk to them it will be hard at first, a big shock to your mom or dad. you need to talk to someone. this is a life in your hands can you handle that resposibilitie at such a young age. what ever you do please dont throw it in the trash,when its born. im sorry to be so harsh but that happens to much. especially young girls. if you dont have a parents support . please consider all your options. adoption or abortion if its not too late. if it is too late i would call an adoption line and ask for help there are good people who would see your problem as a miracle for them. look into it before anything drastic, abortion is drastic. i believe in choice but abortion is not a cotriceptive. good luck

Answer 8

You are pretty young to have a baby but thats beside the point, first tell your parents and with their help and support decide what is best for your baby. If you decide to have it and give the baby up there are alot of couples out there that can't have children and are willing to love your baby. if you would like to talk email me at [e-mail] Good luck honey

Answer 9

wow that must be tough. im sorry ur in this situation. im not going to judge you or anything because im sure ur tired. first u need to decide what u want to do about ur baby. if u arent sure ur ready to raise a child please consider adoption. there are so many people out there that would love to have children. secondly you need go to planned parenthood or your doctor to get prenatal care. u need to take care of ur self and the baby. also have u told the father of the baby? thats very important as well. lastly u need to talk to your family. they are the most important things people in ur life right now. good luck with everything in the future.

Answer 10

Although it will be very hard, tell your parents and let them help you. You should likely tell the father too, but your parents will most likely help you. If your parents aren't there for you, go and get a help from a pastor or someone who you trust. Then decide if you want to keep it or not. If you do not want to keep it, please choose adoption. There are people out there that would love to have a baby and can't.

Answer 11

Raise the child with help from your parents. It'll be rough cause you'll also have to finish school and go to college, but if you do not do all this you'll be in a far worse situation.