and you know that some of the women and girls that he messes with know that he is married, and he treathens you when you try to leave what should you do?
2006-06-30 12:58:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women's Battered Shelter asap.
Don't even hesitate.
Now.
Period.
2006-06-30 13:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by boxergirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with The Great One and the others advice. Are all these affairs In person,on the net or both? Talk to him. If he's messing with others,he is not committed to you. You also mentioned girls, are they underage? He can't make you stay.Do what is best for you.Don't let anyone abuse you,emotionally or phyically. You say it's many women and girls, thats more than a good enough reason to leave. Get help now, to get away from this situation, especially if you are affraid of him. He needs professional help.
2006-06-30 20:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is threatening you in anyway you need to get out. Get an order of protection and have the police serve him and at the same time have him removed from the house. If you make the choice to stay remember to protect yourself because you'll never know if he is having protected sex.
Good luck!
2006-06-30 20:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen... I have been the wife of a cheating husband. Unfaithfulness is never ok, but it does happen... people are fallable. But if he persists in his cheating, he makes your decision considerably easier. And to threaten violence on top of his misconduct? Sweetie... this is a no brainer. Protect yourself, and regain your self respect. There are a number of ways this can be handled. I suggest bringing your local police in on it... they will accompany you to the premises, to pack your things. Also... do yourself a favor, doll... file a report. This needs to be documented, in case he ever tries to make good on these threats. Restraining orders are effective, but only if you stick to them, sternly. The threat of violence is nothing to take lightly, no matter how much you love him. Do NOT be sweet talked by a man who resorts to threats of violence, in order to get his way, and justify his cheating. This man does not love you... and there is no negotiating that fact. One of these days, it will be more than a threat... he will hurt you, someone you love, or worse. Regaurdless of which answer you choose, as the best... you have to get out, and now. If you need help in this matter, contact me through yahoo answers, or my profile. I am happy to listen and advise. I am no expert, but sweetie this is your life you are gambling with. Please log off, right now, and tell someone IN YOUR LIFE what is happening... and go to the police. God's speed, sweetie.
2006-06-30 20:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell away from him asap! You can call a woman's shelter for help. Find a friend that he does not know; go stay with them until you can get on your own 2 feet. you need to LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. If he is threatening you, that's abuse. It's unhealty for you to stay in this relationship. He obviously does not respect you.
2006-06-30 20:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE. the threats will always be there, whether u leave or stay.if u stay w/him he may start physically abusing u; u may contract a sexually transmitted disease, & he may have babies out there. girl, u don't need this. i don't even know if u have kids w/him, but no woman should ever stay w/a man who doesn't love her/treat her like a woman. leave him & go find yourself.
2006-06-30 20:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by twinket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to leave him. No telling what he is exposing you to. He is abusive and you should not have to put up with that. Check your phone book for a crisis line number and call and speak to someone ASAP!!
2006-06-30 20:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by CoolBreeze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Police and Have them escort You out of Your Home when You tell Him Your Dumping Him.
2006-06-30 20:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by M L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the cops involved......and divorce him as soon as you can before he gives you a sexually transmitted disease. Once you leave, break all ties forever...don't give him an inch, he'll take a mile.
2006-06-30 20:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, then call the police and get a restraining order
2006-06-30 20:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Behind These Hazel Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that it is really bad, then I would sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel. it is better when you get all of your feeling out and believe me i know. If he doesnt talk to you with truth, then tell him wether you want to stay with him or not or get a counsler. they always help.
2006-06-30 20:01:44 · answer #11 · answered by princessreeds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋