Depends on your stand point is on sex. If you think you should wait, go ahead and wait, don't let any guy take that from you. Just tell him you think he's the right person, but just let him know you really want to wait to make sure it's the right time. There's alternatives to putting out though. If really wants some and he loves you, give him oral, he'll settle for that.
2006-06-30 12:59:43
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answered by Cracker 1
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If he is the best boyfriend ever, he will wait until you are completely ready. Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with, or you will regret it. If he is really worth your time, he will not pressure you in any way. Never never never have sex with a guy to keep a relationship! You usually end up losing a relationship when that happens.
You should probably find an adult friend/parent to talk this over with because they can help you more than anyone online can.
2006-06-30 12:56:33
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answered by mountain_laurel1183 5
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What do you want to do? Just because he is the best boyfriend you ever had doesn't mean it is the right time? And once you say yes you can never go back. Don't just do it to hold onto him. I don't know what you mean by "I will wit". But there is never a SHOULD about having sex with someone. If you want to you do. If you don't want to you don't. Just make sure yoou have protection when YOU ARE READY
2006-06-30 12:58:13
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answered by Justme 4
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I think it depends how old you are, and if you thik you're ready for sex. If you are under 18 I think you should wait. You'll have plenty of time later to have plenty of sex.
If your boyfriend and you do decide, use protection. Don't get yourself knocked up because you don't know if you 2 can take care of a kid for the next 18 years.
I waited for the right guy, and its worth it. The first time is nver the best but it does get better after that.
You do whats best girlfriend. You know if you're ready to go all the way, not cuz he's your guy.
2006-06-30 12:58:01
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answered by anaheimsportsfan 5
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look being a dad of a 19 yer old I'll tell you what I told her. It's your life now and your choice, but remember when you won't to go out with Friends and have fun and party that one time that the device dose not work you will create a new life and you will be responsible. I'm sure that if you ask other what it's like id hope that thy would let you know how much thy miss out on due to unexpected accidents
2006-06-30 13:11:56
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answered by shadow 1
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Never do what you do not feel comfortable with. if a guy really cares about you he will respect your wishes and hang in there. Your age and His have a great deal to do with how to act. Remind him that sex is part of the larger relationship and by building on that he has a chance later for the sex he wants. You have to want it and not just doing it to please him.
2006-06-30 13:30:57
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answered by mr conservative 5
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My thoughts are: if you are under 16 than I would wait until I was a little older. I waited until I was 18 and my newest girlfriend was 20 when she first did it. I personally believe that for the woman, it should be special. My first was with a more active woman and it was more lusty on my part. I have grown with age and tried to make it special for my current girlfriend.
It also depends on how long you have been dating, if it has been only a few months, than he should be able to wait if you are a special ketch for him.
2006-06-30 12:58:58
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answered by andy 7
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Well if he is your best boyfriend ever than he would respect your wishes not to have sex now explain to him your sitution becuz honestly most guys just want to have sex and leave wait awhile longer to see if his focus is love or lust believe me his true colors will show sooner or later hold out for awhile. because most guys just want to hit it and quit trust me i had a boyfriend that did me like that once and i havent heard from him since and that's been almost 2 years ago.
2006-06-30 12:57:45
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answered by Donnie's Babymama 2
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Have Sex only if you feel comfortable !
After Sex relationship changes most of the times.
2006-06-30 12:56:09
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answered by ♥Gilmore♥ 5
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he's partly proper, men who get distinct action nevertheless pass back and watch porn. yet he shouldn't placed a lot emphasis on it and commence an difficulty over it. per chance each once in a lengthy time period is fantastic. If he makes use of that "you being immature" argument, tell him he might want to've concept about that earlier impregnating you. by how, he would not favor you looked like the girls in porn, you and those porn stars are in diverse diverse varieties (that is a good aspect).
2016-11-30 01:44:53
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answered by ohren 3
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